Asking a girl out on a date can be daunting. But with a positive attitude and a little preparation, you’ll soon be wooing the girl—or girls—of your dreams.

Step 1: Decide where you want to take her

Decide beforehand where you want to take her, if you’re lucky enough to get the date. To a fancy restaurant? A movie? Something more original? If possible, choose something that appeals to her interests.

Step 2: Look your best

Look your best. You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to get a date, but it will help if you’re well groomed.

Step 3: Pick your moment

Pick your moment. Asking a girl for a date when she’s rushed or with other people may torpedo your chances. Wait until it’s just you two and you’re not likely to be interrupted.

Step 4: Be yourself

Be yourself. A sincere geek comes across far better than a guy doing a poor imitation of James Bond.

Step 5: Pay her a compliment

When it’s time to make your move, begin by paying her a compliment. She’ll feel good about herself and look kindly on you. But be sincere—no one likes to be patronized.

Step 6: Ask her out

Take the plunge and ask her out. Nervous? Remind yourself that she can only say “yes” or “no.”

Step 7: Don't take it personally

If she says no, don’t take it personally. You’re not attracted to everyone either, right? Plus, her rejection may have nothing to do with you.

Step 8: Set a date and time

If she says yes, set a date and time immediately. Now go home and get ready for your date. And whatever you do, don’t be late!