Want to gaze into your baby’s eyes and marvel at the miracle of life? Then this is the hold for you.

Step 1: Pick up baby

Pick up the baby by sliding one hand under her neck and head and the other under her hips and bottom, spreading your fingers, and lifting her to your chest.

Step 2: Position arms

Gently slide the hand supporting her head and neck down along her back, allowing her head and neck to slide along your forearm and nestle into the crook of your arm.

Step 3: Give support

Continue cupping her hips and bottom in your other hand, with your fingers spread to give her the most support.

Step 4: Bring close to body

Bring her close to your body, and lose yourself in those baby blues—or browns—or greens—or grays…