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How To Convince Your Lover To Let You Videotape Your Lovemaking 
Sex tapes aren’t just for celebrities anymore! But first you need to talk your camera-shy lover into participating.
You Will Need
- Timing
- Sensitivity
- A willingness to compromise
- Preparedness to be dumped
Step 1: Pick a good time
Wait for a good time to bring up the subject—like when your lover is feeling good about their body.
You can pave the way by complimenting their physical charms in the weeks leading up to The Talk.
Step 2: Address their concerns
Respectfully listen to any reservations they have and address those concerns as best you can.
The most common fear about a sex tape is that it will fall into the wrong hands, so promise them complete ownership.
Step 3: Set ground rules
Offer to set ground rules that might make them feel more comfortable, like dimming the lights or obscuring their face.
Step 4: Compromise
Explore a compromise, like only certain acts will be taped.
Step 5: Negotiate
See if you can make a deal with them—you’ll fulfill one of their fantasies if they’ll do this.
Don’t beg. It will make the idea of sex with you repulsive, never mind videotaped sex.
Step 6: Stay hopeful
Stay hopeful and keep bringing it up. Don’t pester them, but in time they just might come to see things your way.
The late actor Bob Crane’s obsession with filming himself having sex is explored in the 2002 biographical movie Auto Focus.
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