You like to think of yourself as a good friend, but are you really? If you’re not sure, it’s time to think about what makes a true pal.

Step 1: Be willing to listen

Always be willing to listen to what the other person is telling you, even if sometimes it’s boring or makes you uncomfortable.

Step 2: Don't be judgmental

Don’t be judgmental. Try to see your friend’s point of view. If you’re going to disagree, do it respectfully.

Step 3: Speak up

That said, if your friend is doing something that is hurting her or someone else, you must speak up. Forcefully.

Step 4: Don't interrupt

Don’t interrupt your friend. Cutting someone off shows that you are more interested in what you want to say than what they are telling you.

Step 5: Be there when they need help

Be there when they need help. Nothing ends a friendship faster than abandoning a friend in her time of need.

Step 6: Be thoughtful

Be thoughtful. If you’re shopping and see a small item a buddy would like, buy it. Send cards just to let your friends know you value them.

Step 7: Don't take your friends for granted

Don’t take your friends for granted. If you hear yourself thinking, “She’s my friend; she won’t mind,” stop and reconsider. It is precisely because she’s your friend that you shouldn’t take advantage of her.