114187 1301 Sex & Relationships Dating Breaking Up true Fri, 16 Jan 2009 04:04:33 -0800 /system/videos/3/87/41/11/114187.flv relationships, dating, tracking, finding, searching, contacting, flame, ex, ex-girlfriend, ex-boyfriend How To Track Down an Old Flame http://www.howcast.com/videos/114187-How-To-Track-Down-an-Old-Flame http://www.howcast.com/videos/114187-How-To-Track-Down-an-Old-Flame/edit approved 157 640 360 <object width="425" height="273" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=114187"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=114187" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="273" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 19 ThirdPro http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/track_old_flame_hd_3_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.jpg 4483 false false false 53961 0 20 Warning Stalking is a serious offense that is punishable by jail time.

]]> 53962 1 25 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/25.jpg Contact their friends or family If you’ve still got connections to your flame’s friends or family, drop a respectful letter or make a polite phone call. You never know — they may just be willing to help you out.

]]> 53963 2 35 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/35.jpg Optimize your Google search Go to Google to start your online research. Did you know you can guarantee a word will be included in your search results if you put a plus sign in front of it? Review Google’s advanced search tips to optimize how you target your information.

]]> 53965 3 48 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/48.jpg Troll the social sites You’re probably already looking for your old flame on social- and business-networking sites like MySpace, Friendster, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and ZoomInfo. Search multiple sites at the same time by using an uber-search engine like wink.com.

]]> 53964 4 62 Tip Messaging someone through a social-networking site is much less stressful than making cold calls.

]]> 53966 5 67 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/67.jpg Try school-related spots Do you know the name of your long lost love’s high school or college? Use a school-themed social-networking site like classmates.com or reunion.com.

]]> 53967 6 77 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/77.jpg Search the &quot;invisible web&quot; Most search engines won’t automatically look through databases and private sites, also known as the “invisible” or “deep” web. To access these deeper results, try searching with the keyword “database,” or using a site like pipl.com, which automatically combs the invisible web.

]]> 53968 7 93 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/93.jpg Delve into the personal information sites If special someone is proving to be untraceable, try zabasearch.com, an unbelievably thorough people finder that accesses listings for current and former addresses and phone numbers.

]]> 53969 8 105 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/105.jpg Use a Firefox add-on Firefox offers a free add-on called “Who Is This Person?” Download the extension and highlight any name on a webpage. The program allows you to search that name on sites like Technorati, Yahoo, and Wikipedia.

]]> 53970 9 119 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/119.jpg Hire a private detective If you keep hitting dead ends, consider hiring a private detective. Get recommendations, and make sure the PI is licensed, bonded, insured, experienced, and discreet. Also, be prepared to fork over a wad of cash.

]]> 53971 10 133 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/114187/133.jpg Make contact You’ve finally got the contact info! Now what? Writing an email or note gives you the time to plan out what you’d like to say, and has much less potential for disaster than an out-of-the-blue phone call.

]]> 53972 11 146 Fact A survey by classmates.com showed that 39% of its users have gone online to try to find an old flame.

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