How To Pick Out Jewelry For a Woman

Consider an addition to her collection—like pearl earrings to match a necklace she loves, or a bracelet to complement the birthstone ring she rarely takes off. Also note what she’s missing—she may have a ton of earrings, but only two necklaces.

Choose quality over quantity. It’s better to get one small, good piece of jewelry than a cheap large piece or matching set.

Don’t go overboard. If you’ve been dating for less than six months, or the relationship isn’t all that serious—on your part, anyway—don’t get anything that looks like it should be kept in a bank vault.

Think of the message you may send unwittingly: Pearls stand for purity, sapphires signal friendship, and rubies represent sexual passion. Diamonds, of course, stand for eternal love.

Think about what style is flattering for her face and neck. V-shape necklaces look good on women with heart-shaped faces, while long drop earrings elongate a square face. Chokers look best on long necks, and Y-shape necklaces favor women with short necks. Delicate earrings and necklaces are a better choice for petite women than large, jangly jewels.

Have at least a vague idea of her wrist and ring size. If you’re clueless, err on the side of too large so she doesn’t suffer the embarrassment of a ring that won’t move past her knuckle or a bracelet that cuts off her circulation.

Don’t rule out a watch, which is as much an accessory as a timepiece to many women. Plus, it’s the perfect solution when you want to give jewelry without giving jewelry, if you catch our drift.