How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend

  • February 6, 2009
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Sure, you can go online and send the first flowers you see, but a little thought and planning will go a long way toward impressing her.

You Will Need

  • A friend or relative of the recipient
  • Some knowledge of flowers
How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Send her favorite

Step 1: Send her favorite

If she’s ever mentioned a favorite flower, buy that. You’ll get bonus points for listening to her. If you have no clue, ask a friend or relative of hers what she likes.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Be sentimental

Step 2: Be sentimental

If you can think of a bloom related to your relationship, like the ones on the table on your first date, send those with a card noting the connection.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Get out of the rose rut

Step 3: Get out of the rose rut

Resist the urge to send roses, which don’t show much imagination. Surveys show that when women buy flowers for themselves, they usually select more exotic blooms.

If you want to send a fragrant flower, go for gardenias, lilies of the valley, lilacs, freesia, or sweet peas. Hardy tropical types that won’t wilt overnight include Anthuriums, birds of paradise, and ginger. Bouvardias, Chrysanthemums, and Gerbera daisies are also long-lasting.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Ponder the message

Step 4: Ponder the message

Think about the message. Forget-me-nots stand for faithful love, gardenias say, “I love you in secret,” hibiscus represent delicate beauty, and sunflowers signal devotion. Color counts, too. Red means love, orange signals desire, pink conveys appreciation, yellow means friendship, and white represents purity.

A pretty bouquet doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg, but beware of carnations. Because they’re so inexpensive, they can make you look cheap.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Buy local

Step 5: Buy local

Take time to visit a local florist rather than calling an 800 number or ordering online. She’s more apt to get fresh, quality flowers, plus you’ll be able to write the card yourself—a gallant touch she’ll love.

Tell the florist to leave out the greenery—no ferns, no baby’s breath, no nothing. You want flowers, not filler.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Send them to her workplace

Step 6: Send them to her workplace

If she works outside the home, have them delivered to her office, where she’ll have more time to enjoy them. Plus, she’ll get to show them off to jealous coworkers.

How To Buy Flowers For Your Girlfriend: Be random

Step 7: Be random

Send flowers for no reason at all. She just might be moved to return the favor with her own romantic gesture.

According to a book published in 2004, 15 percent of U.S. women send themselves flowers on Valentine’s Day.

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Comments (5)

Darlene212

I would just like to note that I love roses :)

over 3 years ago by Darlene212

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djh

beautiful video

over 3 years ago by djh

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djh

&; I love the little shop of horrors touch

over 3 years ago by djh

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jimmy

whoa, cool effects

over 3 years ago by jimmy

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bgmamablu

what a great HT video. one of the best i've seen

over 2 years ago by bgmamablu

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