How To Flirt
- February 11, 2008
- 171,636 Views
Voice-Over Artist
Georgia Haege
Music
Edison Music Corp
Writer
Rosemarie Lennon
There isn’t just an art to flirting—there’s a science! Use these proven methods to charm and seduce.
You Will Need
- A positive attitude
- A healthy dose of self-confidence
Step 1: Smile
Begin with a bright smile—one that comes from your eyes as well as your lips.
Step 2: Say hello & ask question
Say hello and then ask a question that requires more than a “yes” or “no” answer. For example, “What do you think of the band?” or “Where are we, anyway?”
Forget cheesy pick-up lines. According to one study, a simple “Hi” is the most successful opening line.
Step 3: Keep conversation light
Keep the conversation light. The object is to banter, not get bogged down in a serious discussion.
Step 4: Fiddle a little
Fiddle a little—with your hair, your jewelry, your clothing. People do this subconsciously when they are attracted to someone. Doing it intentionally excites the other person by subliminally telegraphing your interest.
Step 5: Be funny
Put a fun spin on whatever you say. Everyone is attracted to a person with a good sense of humor.
Don’t break eye contact, unless the person is showing you something. Someone who can’t take their eyes off you is very intriguing.
Step 6: Lean in
Lean in as the person talks. It will make him or her feel fascinating—and find you fascinating in return.
Not sure the person you’re flirting with is interested? Look at his or her feet. If they’re pointing in your direction, you’re scoring!
Step 7: Touch person lightly
Touch the person lightly on his arm or hand to create a little sexual tension. Just keep it above the belt!
Step 8: Give hug or peck
When it’s time to go, give a brief hug or a peck on the cheek to convey warmth and reinforce your interest. Happy hunting!
According to one study, winking, smiling, and making eye contact are the three most successful flirting techniques.
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Comments (17)
I feel like chicks don't actually need to be told how to flirt. Just dudes...
over 4 years ago by norgon
almost perfect except that winking men scare me. no man should wink. ever.
over 3 years ago by jenw
Though something else useful would be to know when the person is not interested so you don't make a fool of yourself.
over 3 years ago by sweetpye920
I agree with jenw, as a guy even, winking is weird, unless a chick does it
over 3 years ago by Samo
thanks
over 3 years ago by anthonyaybar
haha i could no agree more.
over 3 years ago by xReedx
this video seems to be intended for women/female/girls... do women really need to learn how to flirt? guys need to learn... Thumbs up if you agree
4 months ago by bellaboo2273
I have some more efficient methods. See my blog http://tobysky.blog.hexun.com/27080201_d.html
over 2 years ago by tobysky
hairplay is I feel, the #1 most adorable female habit. Burping aloud is cute too
over 3 years ago by luckysod04
Winking successful? Who conducted that study!? On another note, the butterfly ";banter balloon"; scores major points. I dig.
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Why the heck did u make dat anyway, it was useful i mean, but still.
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over 3 years ago by xReedx
You can touch me below my belt. I won't mind.
over 3 years ago by Ernesto_Silva
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