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    <title>How To Get Someone's Phone Number</title>
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      <![CDATA[Don't let any more opportunities to meet that sexy stranger slip away!]]>
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        <![CDATA[Courage]]>
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        <![CDATA[Confidence]]>
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        <![CDATA[Some conversation starters]]>
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        <title>Introduce yourself</title>
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          <![CDATA[Approach the person and introduce yourself. Don't bother with cheesy pickup lines—studies show a simple "Hi" works best.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Approach the person and introduce yourself. Don&#8217;t bother with cheesy pickup lines—studies show a simple &#8220;Hi&#8221; works best.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If the other person doesn't immediately offer his or her name, chances are the interest level is low.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If the other person doesn&#8217;t immediately offer his or her name, chances are the interest level is low.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[After you get the person's name, use it almost immediately. For example, "So, Jen, are you a coffee addict, too?" People love the sound of their own name.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>After you get the person&#8217;s name, use it almost immediately. For example, &#8220;So, Jen, are you a coffee addict, too?&#8221; People love the sound of their own name.</p>]]>
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        <title>Slip in flattery</title>
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          <![CDATA[Try to slip in a little flattery. Compliment her name, an article of his clothing—just don't go overboard.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Try to slip in a little flattery. Compliment her name, an article of his clothing—just don&#8217;t go overboard.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Once a conversation is underway, ask questions so you can do more listening than talking. When allowed to dominate a conversation, a person is more likely to rate the listener as highly interesting.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Once a conversation is underway, ask questions so you can do more listening than talking. When allowed to dominate a conversation, a person is more likely to rate the listener as highly interesting.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Try to make the other person laugh. A good sense of humor is always high on the list of traits that singles seek.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Try to make the other person laugh. A good sense of humor is always high on the list of traits that singles seek.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Don't linger. After a few minutes, say that you have to rejoin your friends, get back to work, whatever. End the flirting before you run out of things to say.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t linger. After a few minutes, say that you have to rejoin your friends, get back to work, whatever. End the flirting before you run out of things to say.</p>]]>
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        <title>Say you'd love to see them again</title>
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          <![CDATA[Before walking away, tell the person you've enjoyed chatting and would love to see them again. Hopefully they'll offer their number.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Before walking away, tell the person you&#8217;ve enjoyed chatting and would love to see them again. Hopefully they&#8217;ll offer their number.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you have business cards, pull one out and suggest that you trade.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you have business cards, pull one out and suggest that you trade.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If the other person doesn't get the hint, ask straight-up for their phone number. Now go think of what to say when you call!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If the other person doesn&#8217;t get the hint, ask straight-up for their phone number. Now go think of what to say when you call!</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Research shows that men decide within the first 15 minutes of a date if they want to see the person again, while women take up to an hour.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Research shows that men decide within the first 15 minutes of a date if they want to see the person again, while women take up to an hour.</p>]]>
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