How to Be Sexy

Want to know how to turn a guy on? It’s pretty easy, actually….


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You Will Need

  • Sky-high heels
  • Lavender or pumpkin pie scent
  • Flattering clothing
  • Thongs
  • Long, brown hair
  • An aerobics class


  1. Step 1

    Strap on stilettos

    Wear high heels. When 50,000 men were polled about what fashions added the most sex appeal to a woman, sky-high heels topped the list, followed by slit skirts, stockings, and mini-skirts.

  2. Good news: the next sexiest thing men like is jeans and a t-shirt.

  3. Step 2

    Cross your legs

    If you spy a guy you like, cross and uncross your legs; 70% of men find it sexy. Especially if you’re wearing a skirt – half of men think a woman’s thigh is the sexiest part of her leg.

  4. Step 3

    Dab on lavender perfume

    Wear lavender perfume. Studies found that the scent of lavender gets a guy going. The aroma of pumpkin pie turns him on, too, so you could also try patting a little pumpkin pie spice behind your ears before a big date.

  5. Step 4

    Strive for symmetry

    Research on physical attraction shows that people are attracted to symmetry more than size, so wear clothes that balance your body.

  6. Work those childbearing hips! Men are most attracted to women with a waist to hip ratio of .7 — in other words, an hourglass figure — because it subconsciously signals fertility.

  7. Step 5

    Wear teddies to bed

    Wear a teddy to bed. When it comes to naughty nightwear, men rate teddies as tops, followed by stockings and stilettos.

  8. Step 6

    Wear your hair long

    Wear your hair long; the overwhelming majority of men prefer long hair to short on women. And be stingy with the hairspray; getting his hand caught in your helmet head is not sexy.

  9. If you’re a natural brunette, stick with it; three out of four men polled said they’d rather wake up with a brunette than a blonde.

  10. Step 7

    Buy some thongs

    Consider buying some thongs; men prefer them over bikini panties, two to one.

  11. Step 8

    Take up aerobics

    Take up aerobics. Telling a guy you’re into aerobics adds instant sex appeal. It will keep your heart healthy, and being physically fit is always sexy.

  12. Research indicates that men find women sexiest when they’re ovulating, though it’s entirely subconscious.