151514 1297 Sex & Relationships Communication true Thu, 26 Feb 2009 04:05:12 -0800 /system/videos/6/14/15/15/151514.flv DIY, Instructional, tutorial, Do It Yourself, Tips, Essential Skills, Learn to, sex, relationships, date How To Lead a Double Life http://www.howcast.com/videos/151514-How-To-Lead-a-Double-Life http://www.howcast.com/videos/151514-How-To-Lead-a-Double-Life/edit approved 128 640 360 <object width="425" height="273" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=151514"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=151514" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="273" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 13 Seaworthy http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/double_life_hd2_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.jpg 4935 false false false 60060 1 23 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/23.jpg Assume a different name Assume a different name for any risqué second life. This will help you immediately get into character when you hear your name called in public.

]]> 60061 2 32 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/32.jpg Buy a daily planner Buy a daily planner and be maniacal about scheduling every hour of your day. If you’re going to be successful in leading two different lives, you’ve got to keep them from colliding.

]]> 60062 3 43 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/43.jpg Have separate phones Have separate phones and numbers for each persona.

]]> 60063 4 48 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/48.jpg Get a P.O. box Get a P.O. box for the life you consider the “secret” one.

]]> 60064 5 53 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/53.jpg Don’t allow pictures Don’t allow photos to be taken of you. You never know where they could land, bringing down your whole house of cards.

]]> 60065 6 62 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/62.jpg Be vigilant Be vigilant about assuming the right identity. If you wear the wrong wedding band with the wrong partner, that’s gonna be a hard one to explain.

]]> 60066 7 72 Tip Consider preparing a checklist that you can review when transitioning from one role to the other.

]]> 60067 8 79 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/79.jpg Guard your privacy Guard your privacy, even to the point of rudeness. You never know what a snoopy neighbor may pick up on if you leave him in your den unattended.

]]> 60068 9 89 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/89.jpg Feign incompetence Adopt an absent-minded professor demeanor in both lives; it will make it easier to explain your tendency to repeat and contradict yourself.

]]> 60069 10 99 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/151514/99.jpg Have an emergency plan Have an emergency plan in place, lest your double life becomes exposed. Depending on the extent of your duplicity, having a third identity ready and waiting may be in order!

]]> 60070 11 110 Fact Self-described “gray, bald, fat, old” British car salesman Melvyn Reed was successfully juggling three wives when he awakened in a hospital room after heart surgery to find all three women ready to kill him.

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