How To Make Someone Fall in Love With You
- March 1, 2009
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You don’t have to be a movie star to be irresistible. All it takes is a little psychology.
You Will Need
- Eye contact
- Body language know-how
- Listening skills
- Exhilarating activity
Step 1: Hold eye contact
Make eye contact with the object of your affection and hold it for three seconds. This makes people a tad uncomfortable, which causes the brain to release phenylethylamine, the brain chemical that’s produced when we’re either very afraid — or falling in love.
Step 2: Smile & look away
Once you’ve caught the person’s attention, smile and look away. After all, you don’t want to look like a lunatic.
Step 3: Relax arms and open palms
Relax your arms and open your palms to send the message that you’re approachable, and square your shoulders and sit up straight to exude confidence.
Step 4: Position body
When your target arrives to chat, position your entire body in his or her direction, starting with your feet, to demonstrate your undivided attention.
Step 5: Ask lots of questions
Ask lots of questions. Research shows that when people are given a chance to talk about themselves, they rate the listener as extremely interesting!
Nod and smile in agreement while your target is talking. Not surprisingly, people like people who agree with them.
Step 6: Mirror person's movements
Casually begin mirroring the other person’s movements and positioning — people who like each other subconsciously align their movements, and you can create this harmony by doing it on purpose.
Lean forward as the person talks, which creates intimacy.
Step 7: Do something exhilarating
Do something exhilarating on your first date—see a horror movie, go to a rock concert, or ride a roller coaster. The more adrenaline-pumping, the better, because those love-slash-fear chemicals will create an instant bond between you two.
The average person falls in love seven times before marrying.
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Comments (2)
Is this really effective?
over 2 years ago by ducanhhoang
No! it's NOT really effective. To make someone fall in love with you (per si) is to be always a friend 1st. Support them in everything they do. Treat them with respect. Go do a lot of things together (Movies, walking in parks, travel.....etc...etc....etc....) Last, but not least, you can only pray that your hearts will decide from there. Don't rush love. Be patient. Remember, if you don't end up being together....look what you have?. A wonderful, close and beautiful friendship that will last a life time. You will be together as friends or husband and wife. But isn't that the way it should be? All relationships start out as.....friends
over 2 years ago by TexasSteven
but think once a friend always a fruiend and this will work im on step 6
being a friend is good but u want 2 be more u also have 2 show it
treat every1 wit respect espcial their friends and family
but one thing tat texassteven is right about is dont rush love it takes time for love 2 come together
over 2 years ago by lovespecial4
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