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    <title>How To Make Someone Fall in Love With You</title>
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      <![CDATA[You don't have to be a movie star to be irresistible. All it takes is a little psychology.]]>
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        <![CDATA[An attractive target]]>
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        <![CDATA[A positive attitude]]>
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        <![CDATA[And a bit of bravery]]>
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        <title>Choose a person</title>
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          <![CDATA[Pick an object for your desire.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Pick an object for your desire.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Make and hold eye contact for three seconds. This makes people a tad uncomfortable, which causes the brain to release phenyl ethylamine, the brain chemical that's produced when we're either very afraid -- or falling in love!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make and hold eye contact for three seconds. This makes people a tad uncomfortable, which causes the brain to release phenyl ethylamine, the brain chemical that&#8217;s produced when we&#8217;re either very afraid &#8212; or falling in love!</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Once you've caught the person's attention, smile and look away. After all, you don't want to look like a lunatic.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Once you&#8217;ve caught the person&#8217;s attention, smile and look away. After all, you don&#8217;t want to look like a lunatic.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Relax your arms and open your palms. This sends the message, "I'm approachable."]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Relax your arms and open your palms. This sends the message, &#8220;I&#8217;m approachable.&#8221;</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you're nervous, take a deep breath, hold it for a couple of seconds, and let it out. This will help you relax by providing oxygen to your brain.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re nervous, take a deep breath, hold it for a couple of seconds, and let it out. This will help you relax by providing oxygen to your brain.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Lift your head and straighten your shoulders. Confidence is attractive to everyone.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Lift your head and straighten your shoulders. Confidence is attractive to everyone.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[When a target arrives to chat, position your entire body in his or her direction, starting with your feet, to demonstrate your undivided attention.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>When a target arrives to chat, position your entire body in his or her direction, starting with your feet, to demonstrate your undivided attention.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Ask lots of questions. Research shows that when people are given a chance to talk about themselves, they rate the listener as extremely interesting!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Ask lots of questions. Research shows that when people are given a chance to talk about themselves, they rate the listener as extremely interesting!</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Nod and smile in agreement while your target is talking. Not surprisingly, people like people who agree with them.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Nod and smile in agreement while your target is talking. Not surprisingly, people like people who agree with them.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Casually begin mirroring the other person's movements and positioning -- people who like each other subconsciously align their movements, and you can create this harmony by doing it on purpose.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Casually begin mirroring the other person&#8217;s movements and positioning &#8212; people who like each other subconsciously align their movements, and you can create this harmony by doing it on purpose.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Do something exhilarating on your first date—see a horror movie, go to a rock concert, or ride a roller coaster. The more adrenaline-pumping, the better, because those love-slash-fear chemicals will create an instant bond between you two.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Do something exhilarating on your first date—see a horror movie, go to a rock concert, or ride a roller coaster. The more adrenaline-pumping, the better, because those love-slash-fear chemicals will create an instant bond between you two.</p>]]>
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