How to Make Yourself Irresistible to Guys

Forget what your mom told you about being yourself—there are definite things you can do to tip the odds in your favor!

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Improve your love life with the dating tips in these videos.

 
 

You Will Need

  • Eye makeup
  • An inquisitive mind
  • And a willingness to laugh at his jokes
  • Hair volumizer
  • Lip plumpers

Steps

  1. Step 1

    Don't starve yourself

    Don’t starve yourself. Study after study proves that men prefer curvy over skinny.

  2. Step 2

    Grow out hair

    If your hair is short, grow it out. Surveys say that men love long, full, wavy manes.

  3. Use volumizer to boost your hair, and lip plumpers to pump up your pout, since pillowy lips denote youth.

  4. Step 3

    Make eyes appear larger

    Have a makeup expert show you how to make your eyes appear larger. Large peepers are universally appealing.

  5. Step 4

    Be choosy

    Be choosy. People who are picky are actually more desirable to the opposite sex than those willing to give everyone a shot.

  6. Step 5

    Be informed & well read

    Be informed and well read. A pretty face may get you that first date, but in fact men aren’t as shallow as we think—for the long haul, they want a woman they can talk to.

  7. Step 6

    Flatter him

    Found a special guy? Use targeted flattery. Figure out how he likes to think of himself—does he fancy himself an intellectual? A jock? A good-time Charlie?—then reinforce that perception.

  8. Step 7

    Laugh at his jokes

    Laugh at his jokes. While women want a man who can make them laugh, men want a woman who will appreciate their wit.

  9. Step 8

    Enjoy yourself

    Enjoy being the belle of the ball!

  10. Research shows that while being seriously unattractive makes it harder to find love, being attractive actually doesn’t give much of an advantage over being average.

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