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    <title>How To Dig Up Dirt on Your Date</title>
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      <![CDATA[You don't need a private investigator or mutual friends to do a background check on a date. Being your own sleuth is all about knowing where to look—and what you're looking for.]]>
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        <![CDATA[Some free time]]>
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        <![CDATA[And patience]]>
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        <title>Find out date's names</title>
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          <![CDATA[Find out all you can about your date's name—get any former married names, maiden name, nicknames, and middle names.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Find out all you can about your date&#8217;s name—get any former married names, maiden name, nicknames, and middle names.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Conduct Google searches on all variations of your date's name—first name with full middle and last name, first name with middle initial and last name, et cetera.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Conduct Google searches on all variations of your date&#8217;s name—first name with full middle and last name, first name with middle initial and last name, et cetera.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Run a search using last name first, first name last, in quotes.</p>]]>
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        <title>Google email &amp; phone number</title>
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          <![CDATA[Run Google searches of the person's email address and phone number.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Run Google searches of the person&#8217;s email address and phone number.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Check Google images for pictures of the person.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Check Google images for pictures of the person.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[See if your date has a page on MySpace, Facebook, or other social networking sites.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>See if your date has a page on MySpace, Facebook, or other social networking sites.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Make sure web pages you find refer to your date, not someone with the same name.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make sure web pages you find refer to your date, not someone with the same name.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Do a background search by logging on to www.backgroundcheckgateway.com, which helps people conduct free investigations.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Do a background search by logging on to www.backgroundcheckgateway.com, which helps people conduct free investigations.</p>]]>
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        <title>Check dating sites</title>
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          <![CDATA[Check Match.com and other popular dating sites for profiles of the person.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Check Match.com and other popular dating sites for profiles of the person.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you know a lawyer, journalist, librarian, or other professional with access to LexisNexis, a powerful online database of published and legal documents, ask if they'll do a little digging on your behalf.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you know a lawyer, journalist, librarian, or other professional with access to LexisNexis, a powerful online database of published and legal documents, ask if they&#8217;ll do a little digging on your behalf.</p>]]>
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        <title>Check sex offender registries</title>
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          <![CDATA[Make sure your date is not a sexual predator by logging on to www.fbi.gov, which provides links to various states' online sex offender registries.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make sure your date is not a sexual predator by logging on to www.fbi.gov, which provides links to various states&#8217; online sex offender registries.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you don't find anything alarming, appalling, offensive, or illegal, go out on that date—and draw your own conclusions.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you don&#8217;t find anything alarming, appalling, offensive, or illegal, go out on that date—and draw your own conclusions.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Nine percent of applicants to the online dating service True.com are rejected when the site&#8217;s routine background check discovers they are married and/or have a criminal record.</p>]]>
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