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You Will Need
- A willingness to compromise
- Preparedness to be dumped
Pick a good time
Wait for a good time to bring up the subject—like when your lover is feeling good about their body.
Address their concerns
Respectfully listen to any reservations they have and address those concerns as best you can.
Set ground rules
Offer to set ground rules that might make them feel more comfortable, like dimming the lights or obscuring their face.
Explore a compromise, like only certain acts will be taped.
See if you can make a deal with them—you’ll fulfill one of their fantasies if they’ll do this.
Stay hopeful and keep bringing it up. Don’t pester them, but in time they just might come to see things your way.