173476 1300 Sex & Relationships Dating Asking Someone Out true Mon, 20 Apr 2009 09:17:44 -0700 /system/videos/2/76/34/17/173476.flv DIY, Instructional, tutorial, Do It Yourself, Tips, Essential Skills, Learn to, sex, relationships, dating How To Pick Someone Up in a Bar http://www.howcast.com/videos/173476-How-To-Pick-Someone-Up-in-a-Bar http://www.howcast.com/videos/173476-How-To-Pick-Someone-Up-in-a-Bar/edit approved 87 640 480 <object width="425" height="352" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=173476"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=173476" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="352" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 17 godfreyedwards http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/Picture_8_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.png 20042 false false false 67266 1 17 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/17.jpg Approach the person Approach the person you want to pick up. Have good posture– your walk must convey confidence.

]]> 67267 2 24 Tip Read a newspaper before going out so you’ll have conversation topics ready, just in case.

]]> 67268 3 31 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/31.jpg Introduce yourself Introduce yourself with a simple “Hi.” Research shows it’s the most effective opening line.

]]> 67269 4 37 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/37.jpg Focus on other person Keep the conversation focused on the other person; people love to talk about themselves.

]]> 67270 5 44 Tip Use the other person’s name. As communications legend Dale Carnegie once said, “The sweetest sound in any language is a person’s name.”

]]> 67271 6 54 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/54.jpg Keep things light Keep things light. Surveys show that people are drawn to a good sense of humor in a first encounter.

]]> 67272 7 61 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/61.jpg Move on Gauge the person’s interest after a few minutes; if he or she keeps looking away or backing up, move on.

]]> 67273 8 68 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/173476/68.jpg Swap numbers Swap phone numbers. Of course, if you’re really hitting it off, you won’t need to.

]]> 67274 9 76 Fact Half of club-goers report having had a serious relationship with someone they met in a bar.

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