How To Pick Someone Up in a Bar
- April 20, 2009
- 44,048 Views
Writer
William_Kim
Music
Edison Music Corp
Voice Over Artist
Liv Rooth
Think your stunning good looks are all the charm you need? Maybe, but having a plan of action doesn’t hurt.
You Will Need
- Confidence
- And the ability to improvise
Step 1: Approach the person
Approach the person you want to pick up. Have good posture– your walk must convey confidence.
Read a newspaper before going out so you’ll have conversation topics ready, just in case.
Step 2: Introduce yourself
Introduce yourself with a simple “Hi.” Research shows it’s the most effective opening line.
Step 3: Focus on other person
Keep the conversation focused on the other person; people love to talk about themselves.
Use the other person’s name. As communications legend Dale Carnegie once said, “The sweetest sound in any language is a person’s name.”
Step 4: Keep things light
Keep things light. Surveys show that people are drawn to a good sense of humor in a first encounter.
Step 5: Move on
Gauge the person’s interest after a few minutes; if he or she keeps looking away or backing up, move on.
Step 6: Swap numbers
Swap phone numbers. Of course, if you’re really hitting it off, you won’t need to.
Half of club-goers report having had a serious relationship with someone they met in a bar.
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Comments (2)
Hahahaha! The animations are hysterical....love when they paddle the bar away!
over 2 years ago by HeatherM
If he is a foreigner, how could you communicate with him? So, i think it is better that you can speak several languages. At this time, language software will do you a favor. http://www.c2cellinc.com
about 1 year ago by shiny412
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