How To Cope When a Pet Dies
- May 15, 2009
- 3,292 Views
Voice Over Artist
Darcie Champagne
Writer
Amanda Chatel
Few will ever love you as unconditionally as your pet does. So when you lose them, it’s can be hard to move on. Here is some help.
You Will Need
- Time
- Loved ones
Step 1: Allow yourself to grieve
Don’t be embarrassed that you’re so upset. Your pet was a big part of your life. Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty or silly for grieving.
Step 2: Memorialize your pet
Have a memorial that celebrates your pet’s life, whether it’s gathering loved ones to reminisce, or planting something in your yard that will serve as a tribute.
Making an annual donation to a pet charity or local shelter on the anniversary of your pet’s death both honors your pet and helps other animals.
Step 3: Pick up the pieces
As you are grieving, give away, throw away, or put away your pet’s bowl, toys, brushes, bedding, and other items they used daily. Keeping a few keepsakes is OK, but you don’t want to flood yourself with daily reminders.
Step 4: Don't replace them right away
Resist the temptation to get another pet right away. You don’t want to bring an animal into your home when you’re feeling despondent. When you’re ready, you’ll know, but a good rule of thumb is to wait at least six months.
Step 5: Be patient
Be patient. Know that it’s going to take time before you feel good again.
Six months after the death of a pet, 35 percent of pet owners are still grieving, and 22 percent are still struggling with the loss a year later.
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Comments (4)
OMG! SOOO SAD........ :o( KOBI Y DID YOU LEAVE ME?!?! DX
over 2 years ago by shelly_shellz
Very sad...
over 2 years ago by HeatherM
Oh no very sad!!
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over 2 years ago by simran19
Very sad but so funny when he's layin on the floor!
over 2 years ago by stellaoh
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