How To Be a Good Girlfriend

  • June 1, 2009
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Standing by your man doesn’t mean trotting behind him—or dragging him around on a leash. A little respect—for him, and for yourself, will go a long way.

You Will Need

  • An upbeat personality
  • An independent streak
  • An adventurous spirit
How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Make your life happy

Step 1: Make your life happy

Make your life happy and fulfilling without him. Contrary to popular belief, men want women who are fun and fascinating even more than they want a pretty face.

Don’t pretend to be unavailable—be unavailable. Staying busy makes you seem more valuable—and gives you plenty to talk about!

How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Limit the talks

Step 2: Limit the talks

Limit the “we need to talk” talks. Most men despise having to analyze the relationship.

How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Embrace his friends

Step 3: Embrace his friends

Embrace his friends. Keep your criticism of them to yourself, and don’t complain when he wants to spend time with them.

How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Tailor your compliments

Step 4: Tailor your compliments

Tailor your compliments. Research shows men would rather be praised for a special quality of theirs, like having a great sense of humor, than being told they look good.

How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Be adventurous

Step 5: Be adventurous

Be adventurous. Scientists have found that the parts of the brain that are activated when we first fall in love are re-stimulated by adventure and novelty.

Adventure can be as bold as skydiving or as ordinary as taking a photography course—the key is doing something fun and new together.

How To Be a Good Girlfriend: Practice bathroom etiquette

Step 6: Practice bathroom etiquette

Practice good bathroom etiquette. One survey found that men’s top pet peeves are women’s hair all over the bathroom, mirrors coated with hairspray, and women who try to talk to them while they’re using the toilet.

Ninety-seven percent of men responding to a Men’s Health magazine poll said they like their girlfriend to show affection for them in public.

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stanley1209

Great .. Sam ..

over 2 years ago by stanley1209

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HeatherM

Great first video, Samuel!

over 2 years ago by HeatherM

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beavertalk

Bathroom etiquette is important for both sexes but women do have 150 items as opposed to men who have 4...

over 2 years ago by beavertalk

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Pigaroo

Thank you for the video. Very interesting and inspiring.

over 2 years ago by Pigaroo

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