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          <![CDATA[If you are being physically abused, break it off immediately: It is _definitely_ time to get out. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you are being physically abused, break it off immediately: It is <em>definitely</em> time to get out.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Don't tolerate emotional abuse, either. If your partner spends much of their time belittling you, it is not a healthy relationship. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you've been fighting lately, think about the substance of your spats. Are they about inconsequential things? Or do you have insurmountable differences in important areas like money, sex, or parenting? ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve been fighting lately, think about the substance of your spats. Are they about inconsequential things? Or do you have insurmountable differences in important areas like money, sex, or parenting?</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Think about why you've stayed in the relationship this far. Is there real love there, or are you afraid to be alone? Are financial reasons keeping you from moving on? Are you dreading hurting this person's feelings? None of these are good reasons to stay in a bad relationship. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Think about why you&#8217;ve stayed in the relationship this far. Is there real love there, or are you afraid to be alone? Are financial reasons keeping you from moving on? Are you dreading hurting this person&#8217;s feelings? None of these are good reasons to stay in a bad relationship.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Ready to pack your bags? Answer one more question: Is it your relationship that's making you restless, or is it something else? Changing partners won't make you happy if the person you are really displeased with is yourself.  ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Ready to pack your bags? Answer one more question: Is it your relationship that&#8217;s making you restless, or is it something else? Changing partners won&#8217;t make you happy if the person you are really displeased with is yourself.</p>]]>
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