196002 1009 Parenting & Family Marriage Marital Strife true Thu, 25 Jun 2009 04:04:27 -0700 /system/videos/2/02/60/19/196002.flv parenting, family, marriage, marital, strife, problems, laid, off, unemployed, jobs How To Get Your Partner Back on Their Feet After Losing a Job http://www.howcast.com/videos/196002-How-To-Get-Your-Partner-Back-on-Their-Feet-After-Losing-a-Job http://www.howcast.com/videos/196002-How-To-Get-Your-Partner-Back-on-Their-Feet-After-Losing-a-Job/edit approved 119 640 360 <object width="425" height="273" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=196002"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=196002" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="273" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 5 carlo_scialla http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/partner_feet_hd_2_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.jpg 830 false false false 74960 1 20 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/20.jpg Decide if you need to get tough Decide if you need to get tough. It’s normal for you to feel resentment, especially if they have been out of work for a while. The trick is to determine if you’re angry at the situation, or if you are justifiably annoyed because they are not doing enough to find a job. If it’s the latter, let them know it’s time to step up their game.

]]> 74961 2 39 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/39.jpg Identify the problem If your spouse is not getting many interviews, take a look at their resume. You may be able to beef it up by identifying strengths and skills they don’t know they have. If they are getting plenty of interviews but no job offers, stage some mock interviews with them to see if you can pinpoint what they’re doing wrong in the hot seat.

]]> 74962 3 58 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/58.jpg Help them network Encourage them to call anybody and everybody they can think of who might have a job lead, and you do the same with your network of friends, family, and business associates.

]]> 74963 4 69 Tip Social-networking sites are a great way to reconnect with old friends and classmates.

]]> 74964 5 74 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/74.jpg Encourage them to join groups Urge them to join professional associations and to find a job seekers group through your house of worship or community center. Besides widening their list of contacts, it will help combat the isolation that many unemployed workers feel.

]]> 74965 6 89 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/89.jpg Consider temp work Suggest they take on some temp work. It’s a good way to stay busy, earn some money, make new contacts, and perhaps even land a full-time gig. Plus, it will take some pressure off your relationship if they’re once again contributing to the family coffers.

]]> 74966 7 104 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/196002/104.jpg Be patient Be patient. It takes about six months to find a new job, so try not to get discouraged if the search at times seems fruitless.

]]> 74967 8 113 Fact The average American has 10 jobs in their lifetime.

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