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]]> 75691 2 31 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/197248/31.jpg Ask for a hint Still not talking? Ask for a hint. If you can get them to take that first step, you might be able to ease them into telling you everything.

]]> 75692 3 39 Tip Act duly impressed by the little hint they drop – it will encourage them to divulge more.

]]> 75693 4 43 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/197248/43.jpg Take a guess Say, “let me guess,” and then give it your best shot. If they think that you already have some of the information, they’ll feel less guilty about spilling the rest of the beans.

]]> 75694 5 56 Tip Carefully monitor their reaction to your guess so you’ll know if you’re on the right track.

]]> 75695 6 60 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/197248/60.jpg Tell them a secret No dice? Tell them a secret – and make it juicy. This kind of offer often makes people feel obligated to return the favor.

]]> 75696 7 70 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/197248/70.jpg Act uninterested Are they still holding back? Change the subject. Now that they’ve lost your attention, they may feel that revealing the secret is worth keeping you in their thrall.

]]> 75697 8 83 Fact Research shows that people who have been hiding a painful secret show improvements in physical and mental health when they unburden themselves.

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