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    <title>How To Score a Last-Call Hookup</title>
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      <![CDATA[It’s closing time—which means it’s time to get serious about finding someone willing to go home with you.]]>
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        <![CDATA[A pick-up line]]>
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        <![CDATA[A place to score]]>
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          <![CDATA[Scan the room for your top three choices. Base your decision not just on desirability, but on attainability as well. Exclude anyone already talking to a guy—trying to muscle in now could lead to a bar fight, in which case no one will get laid. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Scan the room for your top three choices. Base your decision not just on desirability, but on attainability as well. Exclude anyone already talking to a guy—trying to muscle in now could lead to a bar fight, in which case no one will get laid.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Go for the middle of the road. There’s a mathematical concept called “insincere voting” in which you sacrifice your unlikely top choice to make sure you don’t end up with your least-favorite choice. Get used to it.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Go for the middle of the road. There’s a mathematical concept called “insincere voting” in which you sacrifice your unlikely top choice to make sure you don’t end up with your least-favorite choice. Get used to it.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you’ve awakened with regrets in the past, pick a level of attractiveness below which you won’t go—and try to stick to it!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you’ve awakened with regrets in the past, pick a level of attractiveness below which you won’t go—and try to stick to it!</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you’re drunk or horny enough, you might be unable to set such a standard. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you’re drunk or horny enough, you might be unable to set such a standard.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Make eye contact with each of your top three choices. Approach the first person who returns your gaze.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make eye contact with each of your top three choices. Approach the first person who returns your gaze.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If you strike out with all three, reassess the remaining patrons. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If you strike out with all three, reassess the remaining patrons.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[The minute someone looks back and smiles, approach her, strike up a conversation, and position your body so as to prevent anyone else from interacting with her.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>The minute someone looks back and smiles, approach her, strike up a conversation, and position your body so as to prevent anyone else from interacting with her.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Buy her a last-call drink to make sure those wheels are really greased. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Buy her a last-call drink to make sure those wheels are really greased.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Gauge her interest. If it’s obvious she’s not interested in sex with a virtual stranger, move on quickly—time is running out.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Gauge her interest. If it’s obvious she’s not interested in sex with a virtual stranger, move on quickly—time is running out.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Make your intentions clear without being crude. A simple “Hey, I’m not ready to call it a night—wanna go somewhere else?” should do the trick.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make your intentions clear without being crude. A simple “Hey, I’m not ready to call it a night—wanna go somewhere else?” should do the trick.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If she’s game, leave ASAP, before the lights come on and everything takes on a tacky patina.  ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If she’s game, leave <span class="caps">ASAP</span>, before the lights come on and everything takes on a tacky patina.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[If she’s flirty but hesitant, take her to a coffee shop and work your charms. But if she’s all over you, head straight to the closest apartment!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If she’s flirty but hesitant, take her to a coffee shop and work your charms. But if she’s all over you, head straight to the closest apartment!</p>]]>
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