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Improve your love life with the dating tips in these videos.
You Will Need
- A pick-up line
- A place to score
Scan the room
Scan the room for your top three choices. Base your decision not just on desirability, but on attainability as well. Exclude anyone already talking to a guy--trying to muscle in now could lead to a bar fight, in which case no one will get laid.
Set a standard
If you’ve awakened with regrets in the past, pick a level of attractiveness below which you won’t go--and try to stick to it!
Make eye contact
Make eye contact with each of your top three choices. Approach the first person who returns your gaze.
Reassess as needed
If you strike out with all three, reassess the remaining patrons.
The minute someone looks back and smiles, approach her, strike up a conversation, and position your body so as to prevent anyone else from interacting with her.
Gauge her interest. If it’s obvious she’s not interested in sex with a virtual stranger, move on quickly--time is running out.
Be diplomatic but direct
Make your intentions clear without being crude. A simple 'Hey, I’m not ready to call it a night--wanna go somewhere else?' should do the trick.
If she’s game, leave ASAP, before the lights come on and everything takes on a tacky patina.
Don’t blow it
If she’s flirty but hesitant, take her to a coffee shop and work your charms. But if she’s all over you, head straight to the closest apartment!