How To Deal With Depression in College

  • January 15, 2008
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The blues, the blahs, mild depression—call it what you want, but between leaving home, getting too little sleep, and possibly even binge drinking or doing drugs, it’s no surprise that it affects over half of all college students at some point.

You Will Need

  • A social network of family and friends you trust
  • A calendar full of activities that you enjoy
  • A gym
  • A positive outlook

These tips are intended to help cope with the blues, or mild depression—not serious or clinical depression. Consult with the appropriate medical personnel to discuss what treatment will be most effective for you.

Step 1: Run through a checklist of symptoms

Run through a checklist of symptoms to determine if you’re suffering through a stretch of “the blues” or struggling with true depression.

Ask yourself: Am I persistently sad, anxious, or empty? Am I sleeping or eating too much or too little? Have I had suicidal thoughts? Is it hard to concentrate or make decisions? Am I merely homesick or do I truly feel empty?

Step 2: Talk with a counselor

If you have suffered from three or more of these symptoms for at least two weeks, you should share your feelings with a counselor.

Step 3: Start thinking positively

Start thinking positively. Negative views of yourself and others are part of the depression. By thinking positive, those thoughts start to fade.

Step 4: Set realistic goals

Set realistic goals—don’t try to do too much. Break large projects into smaller ones. Completing them will boost your confidence and put you in a good mood.

Step 5: Surround yourself with others

Surround yourself with others, especially people you trust, confide in, and engage with—not those who make you feel unwelcome or judge you for any reason.

Step 6: Find a group on campus

Find a group on campus that participates in activities that you enjoy, such as theater, sports, or putting out the newspaper.

Step 7: Begin going to the gym

Begin going to the gym for a workout, yoga session, or swim. Remember, you’ll need to start slow and easy—and that’s ok. Research shows even 10 or 15 minutes of exercise can help improve your mood.

Step 8: Visit home

Visit home on long weekends or breaks. Call your old friends in advance and arrange to meet up.

Step 9: Put off making important decisions

Put off making important decisions about your career, love life, studies, and such until after your depression has lifted and you can think objectively.

Step 10: Be patient

Know that it will take time to feel better and let your family and friends help you.

Step 11: Tell your parents

Tell your parents. Yes, they do want to help. If you feel unable to tell them, tell a trusted older adult, such as a friend’s parent, professor, or counselor.

Step 12: Seek professional help

If your symptoms persist for more than two weeks, seek professional help.

A 1999 study proved that regular exercise is as effective as anti-depressant medication in lifting depression.

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