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    <created-at>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 12:30:41 -0700</created-at>
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    <tags>DIY, Instructional, tutorial, Do It Yourself, Tips, Essential Skills, Learn to, sex, relationships, relationship, dating, date, serious, introduce, introducing, metrosexual, boyfriend, redneck, hick, hicks, brother, brothers, friends</tags>
    <title>How To Introduce Your Metrosexual Boyfriend To Your Redneck Brothers</title>
    <description>
      <![CDATA[Your boyfriend moisturizes and exfoliates; your brothers shave with their hunting knives. Can this relationship be saved? ]]>
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    <username>Jake_Bakkila</username>
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    <ingredients>
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        <![CDATA[Time to prepare]]>
      </ingredient>
      <ingredient>
        <![CDATA[A neutral location]]>
      </ingredient>
      <ingredient>
        <![CDATA[Acceptance of the outcome]]>
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        <title>Make clear</title>
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          <![CDATA[Make clear to your brothers ahead of time that your boyfriend is _not_ gay, no matter how much he spends on hair-care products.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make clear to your brothers ahead of time that your boyfriend is <em>not</em> gay, no matter how much he spends on hair-care products.</p>]]>
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        <title>Make clear</title>
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          <![CDATA[Make clear to your boyfriend ahead of time that your brothers are not stupid, despite their disinterest in anything un-American. ]]>
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        <text>
          <![CDATA[<p>Make clear to your boyfriend ahead of time that your brothers are not stupid, despite their disinterest in anything un-American.</p>]]>
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        <title>Choose a location</title>
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          <![CDATA[Choose a public place for the introduction, so that your boyfriend isn’t scared and your brothers are less likely to get violent. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Choose a public place for the introduction, so that your boyfriend isn’t scared and your brothers are less likely to get violent.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Try to keep your brothers sober for the introduction.  ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Try to keep your brothers sober for the introduction.</p>]]>
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        <title>Make rules</title>
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          <![CDATA[Make rules in advance about topics that are off-limits, like sex, politics, religion—and whether or not hunting is just cruel.]]>
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        <text>
          <![CDATA[<p>Make rules in advance about topics that are off-limits, like sex, politics, religion—and whether or not hunting is just cruel.</p>]]>
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        <title>Dress down</title>
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          <![CDATA[Dress down your boyfriend as much as he’ll allow. He’ll probably balk at wearing a flannel shirt, but at least get him to leave his man purse at home.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Dress down your boyfriend as much as he’ll allow. He’ll probably balk at wearing a flannel shirt, but at least get him to leave his man purse at home.</p>]]>
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        <title>Make the introductions</title>
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          <![CDATA[Make the introductions in a firm, clear voice that says you will brook no nonsense: “Carter, these are my brothers Tarnation, Junior, and Smoot.”]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make the introductions in a firm, clear voice that says you will brook no nonsense: “Carter, these are my brothers Tarnation, Junior, and Smoot.”</p>]]>
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        <title>Stay close</title>
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          <![CDATA[Stay close so you can translate. You might know that your boyfriend is discussing yoga when he refers to “doing the downward dog,” but your brothers might think it's something a little less innocent.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Stay close so you can translate. You might know that your boyfriend is discussing yoga when he refers to “doing the downward dog,” but your brothers might think it&#8217;s something a little less innocent.</p>]]>
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        <timemarker>0</timemarker>
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          <![CDATA[If your boyfriend has ever done anything manly or heroic, now is the time to bring it up.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>If your boyfriend has ever done anything manly or heroic, now is the time to bring it up.</p>]]>
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        <title>Lead</title>
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          <![CDATA[Lead the conversation into safe topics both sides can relate to, like football and alcohol.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Lead the conversation into safe topics both sides can relate to, like football and alcohol.</p>]]>
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        <title>Enjoy a post-mortem</title>
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          <![CDATA[Enjoy post-mortems with both sides, and be grateful the evening didn’t end in bloodshed. Unless it did, in which case blood is thicker than water, so let your bros fix you up with a “real man.” ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Enjoy post-mortems with both sides, and be grateful the evening didn’t end in bloodshed. Unless it did, in which case blood is thicker than water, so let your bros fix you up with a “real man.”</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[The term “metrosexual” was voted word of the year by the American Dialect Society in 2003. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>The term “metrosexual” was voted word of the year by the American Dialect Society in 2003.</p>]]>
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