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    <created-at>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 14:51:17 -0700</created-at>
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    <title>How To Speed-date Impressively</title>
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      <![CDATA[Speed Dating is a commonly used tactic to find that special someone, but is it right for you? It is, as well as it is for everyone else!]]>
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        <![CDATA[A Timer or Clock]]>
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        <![CDATA[A Silent Romantic Area]]>
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      <ingredient>
        <![CDATA[Serveral People That You Are Intrested In]]>
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        <![CDATA[Confidence]]>
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        <title>A Silent Romantic Area</title>
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          <![CDATA[You will need to find an area in which you feel comfortable (Ex: A Quiet Restaurant)]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>You will need to find an area in which you feel comfortable (Ex: A Quiet Restaurant)</p>]]>
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        <type>Warning</type>
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          <![CDATA[Make sure the area you pick accepts all races and sex's. If it does not it may be offensive to one of the people you are meeting, and put you in a realy bad spot!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make sure the area you pick accepts all races and sex&#8217;s. If it does not it may be offensive to one of the people you are meeting, and put you in a realy bad spot!</p>]]>
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        <title>Pick A Time Limit For Each Date </title>
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          <![CDATA[Make sure that the time limit you pick is enough to look at the person and gain a basic overlook of their personality. If you cant gain that within the time limit, odds are that your speed dating will not go well. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make sure that the time limit you pick is enough to look at the person and gain a basic overlook of their personality. If you cant gain that within the time limit, odds are that your speed dating will not go well.</p>]]>
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        <title>Look For Details That Intrest You</title>
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          <![CDATA[You need to find details about the people that you are speed dating. If you find serveral facts about the person that seems intresting to you, you may want to put them on your "finalist list". Make sure that if you do this, you will be able to actualy talk and listen to the person]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>You need to find details about the people that you are speed dating. If you find serveral facts about the person that seems intresting to you, you may want to put them on your &#8220;finalist list&#8221;. Make sure that if you do this, you will be able to actualy talk and listen to the person</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Make eye contact with someone you like for about three seconds then smile and look away, this causes the brain to relese a chemical that is only released when someone is very afraid or "falling in love"! Make Sure you had a good time, and have an idea who that special someone is.
                       ^_^]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Make eye contact with someone you like for about three seconds then smile and look away, this causes the brain to relese a chemical that is only released when someone is very afraid or &#8220;falling in love&#8221;! Make Sure you had a good time, and have an idea who that special someone is.<br />
                       <sup>_</sup></p>]]>
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        <title>Know Who That Special Someone Is (Optional Read)</title>
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          <![CDATA[Your special someone should be one of the people that realy caught your attention, kind of gained your trust right off the bat. All of the people may be good people but there is only one for you, you can narrow the choice down by having longer, better timed dates with your finalist. This these person/people can be manipulating though watch out!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Your special someone should be one of the people that realy caught your attention, kind of gained your trust right off the bat. All of the people may be good people but there is only one for you, you can narrow the choice down by having longer, better timed dates with your finalist. This these person/people can be manipulating though watch out!</p>]]>
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        <title>Watch For Tricks (Optional Read)</title>
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          <![CDATA[Watch out, many people trick or manipulate a person for their own personal gain. You must watch for this. Signs are different "personality changes" that ocur when with friends and you. Note: This happens normaly, but if it seems ecessive and over what you think it should be it may meen trouble.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Watch out, many people trick or manipulate a person for their own personal gain. You must watch for this. Signs are different &#8220;personality changes&#8221; that ocur when with friends and you. Note: This happens normaly, but if it seems ecessive and over what you think it should be it may meen trouble.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Ask your friends what they think of your girl/guy. Their opinions may point out some of the things you did not notice about your dream person! This will help you to decide what you should do in the future!]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Ask your friends what they think of your girl/guy. Their opinions may point out some of the things you did not notice about your dream person! This will help you to decide what you should do in the future!</p>]]>
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