How To Know If a Girl Likes You

  • June 11, 2009
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You don’t want to ask a girl out and have her say no. Here are some subtle clues to tell whether she’s interested in you, or you’re stuck in the “friend” category.

You Will Need

  • A keen eye
  • A lame joke
  • A conversation starter
  • Courage

Step 1: Check her body language

Check her body language when you speak to her. Signs she’s interested include biting or licking her lips, touching her neck or lifting her head so more of her neck is exposed; leaning toward you; playing with her hair; and wiping imaginary dust off your clothes.

If her nostrils flare, it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s angry; it can also signal she’s attracted to you.

Step 2: Tell a joke

Tell a joke, even a lame one. If she laughs heartily, she’s probably smitten.

Step 3: Notice her personality

Notice her personality. Does it change when she’s around you, becoming either quieter or bubblier than normal? This is a sign of nervousness, and nervousness is a sign that she has a crush on you.

Step 4: Watch her friends

Watch her friends. If they step away from her when you approach, she’s probably told them to make themselves scarce when you’re around.

Step 5: Take the plunge

If you’re getting all the right signals, go ahead and ask her out. And don’t beat yourself up if she says no. Some girls are just natural-born flirts.

Did you know?
When we see someone we like, our brain releases feel-good chemicals like endorphins and dopamine.

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Comments (9)

Bronxpuertoricankid1986

i honestly canot tell if a female is giving me hints that she likes me last girl that liked me gave me dirrect body blow hints that she wanted to date me and i did not realize that it has happen to me more then once 10 times in my life time what should i do

over 2 years ago by Bronxpuertoricankid1986

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legendthriller

well i'm only 11 and i know a girl likes me. i dont need these tips. i just know it. whenever i talk to her, she gets into it and she liked her lips. Dont ask if i like her

over 2 years ago by legendthriller

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Kayla_Hutchins

Mainly, This is for guys who can't tell (I know more then a few).

over 2 years ago by Kayla_Hutchins

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Pilihp

Her friends also talk and giggle behind my back but I can't tell, she sorta has gossippy friends

over 2 years ago by Pilihp

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Pilihp

So I have known this girl about a year, and we can talk and I can make her laugh, but she recently went out with my best friend, without him knowing I like her. They broke up a couple months ago and her facebook is always saying she wants a relationship. She always chats with me, sends me messages and stuff but I misread signals before sooo........

over 2 years ago by Pilihp

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Bronxpuertoricankid1986

i need sirious F***ING HELP HEAR

over 2 years ago by Bronxpuertoricankid1986

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lovespecial4

jus cuz her friends back away doesnt mean she told hem tat they probaly have 2 go somewhere but if her friends do tat more than 3 times she might have tolkd them

over 2 years ago by lovespecial4

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lovespecial4

u can notice if she likes more by body lanuage and her personatily is changing i mean tat is how i kno and she told me wen i told her i lked but dont tell to early she either might think ur tryin get her in the bed or she will feel weird and change her feelings

over 2 years ago by lovespecial4

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hydebrad5

i can not tell if my best frends girl frend likes me

about 1 year ago by hydebrad5

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