How To Tell If a Guy Likes You
- August 25, 2009
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Contributor
ShannonH
Actor/ Camera
Natalia Streeter
Music
Jonathan Roberts
Voice Over Artist
Amanda Yackechak
There are lots of subtle clues that will let you know if a guy is interested in you that way, or just sees you as a friend.
You Will Need
- Courage to make the first move
- Good observational skills
- Hints to drop
Step 1: Gauge his interest
Find a reason to chat him up. If he seems happy that you said hello or if he responds to your text message right away, that’s a good sign. Guys generally don’t play hard to get, so what you see is what you get.
Step 2: See if he shows off
Notice how he acts when you’re around. If he gets all loud and jokey with his friends or starts showing off in some way, he’s probably trying to impress you.
Look at his pupils when you make eye contact; if he’s attracted to you, they’ll get bigger.
Step 3: Check out his chest
Check out his chest. Is he sticking it out a little when he talks to you? Men subconsciously “puff up” around females they’re interested in. It has to do with evolution: He’s sending the message that he’s strong enough to protect you.
Step 4: Watch his hands
Watch his hands. Men who are attracted to someone tend to touch their earlobes. His ears may turn a bit red, too.
Step 5: Talk about what you like
Mention something you like – a type of food, a local sports team – and see what he says. It’s human nature to respond positively when someone we like gives their opinion.
Ask him to help you with something, whether it’s carrying a heavy item or giving you advice. Guys love to “rescue” girls.
Step 6: Drop a hint
Drop a hint like, “I’m hoping to catch a game the next time the team is in town,” and see what he says. It will provide an opening even the shyest guy can’t ignore!
Step 7: Ask him out
He’s not biting? Ask him out. It’s the fastest way to find out his feelings for sure.
Did you know?In a study of reunited childhood sweethearts, the most successful rekindled romances were between lost loves who were 17 or younger at the time they first fell in love.
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Comments (22)
lol cool
over 2 years ago by Adena_Palmer
Generally when she says, ";My regular rate is 100/ half hour, but for you I'll only charge $80 is a pretty good sign she likes you. :p
over 2 years ago by deckard1
4 the 7th 1 he asked me out but then said ";just kidding"; but...then he changed his attitude...does that mean he likes me???????????????????????
over 2 years ago by lala8001
He's either shy, or not interested =Z
Ask him out and see what he says, no harm done :]
over 2 years ago by PoLaR
estaa padrisimo natalia!... me encanto =)
muchas felicidades les quedo muy bien
over 2 years ago by Andrea_Almeida
I love step 2!!!!!
over 2 years ago by crazyp3t3
Cute video!
over 2 years ago by theprohouse
This video is so funny. I like it a lot!
over 2 years ago by crazyp3t3
I agree! and I love step 2 also! it made me laugh a lot!
over 2 years ago by TALYPB
I like this certain boy in my school but I think two other friends are also in love with him and he is leaving my country in this December FOREVER what should I do? I know I should tell him, but what if he doesnt like me or my freinds heard i told him that and never want to be my friends again? :(
3 months ago by natamada
Great body language insight and great video!
over 2 years ago by BCipolla
haha
over 2 years ago by Adena_Palmer
so funny,i love the step 2 and the 7th.I think you can talk to him anything like your good friends.
3 months ago by ethanlee
This video is so Funny!!!!
over 2 years ago by crazyp3t3
nice video!
over 2 years ago by Olivier_Kouame
Ive been talking to this guy for a month now, He says im cute and everything but he hasnt made a move to ask me out or anything and for sure im not asking him out im too scared. Like i feel like im going to get rejected or something! HELP! D:
about 1 year ago by JennaWentz11561
For more relationship advice check out:
http://www.howcast.com/videos/259676-How-To-Deal-With-People-Who-Like-To-Start-Arguments
about 1 year ago by crazyp3t3
good
about 1 year ago by sudesh215
PLEASE HELP i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me all you guys please leave me a reply on what you do when you like a girl.... :) thanks a ton...
about 1 year ago by ihavesomethingtosay
i wonder if that eye part was true or not
over 2 years ago by Lone_Girl_Jessa
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