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Improve your love life with the dating tips in these videos.
You Will Need
- Observational skills
- Immunity to empty flattery
- Healthy suspicion
Beware of the stare
Beware of a guy who stares at you for too long. It’s a sign of aggression and usually means you’re his next conquest.
Assess his style
Assess a guy’s style for clues. Super-grooming signals he’s probably more into himself than you.
Pay attention to body language
Pay attention to his body language. If he leans in close to you right away he is staking out his territory.
Distrust immediate intimacy
Distrust the guy who showers you with compliments or falls for you too quickly. Players use charm and flattery as a way to move in quickly.
Look for an ever-present cell phone
Look for an ever-present cell phone in the hand of the player. If he guards his cell phone like a pit bull and doesn’t let you use it, he’s probably a player.
Be suspicious of unreliability
Be suspicious if the player always calls late, doesn’t show up, and constantly offers lame excuses. Look out for a guy who’s always busy.
Beware of jealousy
Beware of someone who’s extremely jealous and possessive, especially early in the relationship. If they don’t trust you, it usually means they can’t be trusted themselves.