223530 1313 Sex & Relationships Marriage Divorce true Tue, 20 Oct 2009 04:06:48 -0700 /system/videos/1/23/93/25/259323.flv jumpstarting,again,starting,dating,socializing,divorcing,splitting,breaking,single,returning How To Jump-start Your Social Life After a Divorce http://www.howcast.com/videos/223530-How-To-Jumpstart-Your-Social-Life-After-a-Divorce http://www.howcast.com/videos/223530-How-To-Jumpstart-Your-Social-Life-After-a-Divorce/edit approved 131 640 360 <object width="425" height="273" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=223530"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=223530" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="273" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 0 vinzfeller http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/social_live_after_divorce_hdstill01_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.jpg 476 false false false 91617 0 22 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/22.jpg Get a makeover Prepare to meet new people by treating yourself to a makeover. Buy some new clothes, update your hairstyle, whiten your teeth, pump some iron. It’s easier to socialize when you feel good about yourself.

]]> 91618 1 34 Tip Take up jogging. You’ll get in shape and run into new people all the time, literally!

]]> 91619 2 40 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/40.jpg Make new friends Make some new friends, especially if all your old ones are married or still socializing with your ex. It will be easier for you to let your hair down among new acquaintances. Join a club, take a course, become a volunteer, and talk to people wherever you go.

]]> 91620 3 56 Tip Find someone who’s willing to act as your wing person when you go out, especially if you’re shy.

]]> 91621 4 62 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/62.jpg Force yourself out Force yourself to go out at least once a week, even when you don’t feel like it. Otherwise, it’s too easy to hibernate, and the longer you wait to start socializing as a single, the harder it may become.

]]> 91622 5 75 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/75.jpg Don't use kids as an excuse If you have children, don’t use them as an excuse to stay home every night. They won’t be around to keep you company forever, and having a hermit for a mom or dad is not healthy.

]]> 91623 6 87 Tip Don’t introduce any romantic possibility to your children until you become seriously involved with them.

]]> 91624 7 94 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/94.jpg Leave your comfort zone Go solo on occasion, whether it’s eating alone in a restaurant or going on vacation by yourself. It can be easier to meet people, since strangers will be less shy about talking to you.

]]> 91625 8 105 Tip Eating dinner at the bar of a popular restaurant is a terrific way to strike up conversations with people.

]]> 91626 9 112 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/223530/112.jpg Keep your options open When you begin dating, keep your options open. You just got out of a relationship; make sure that this time around you know what you really want.

]]> 91627 10 121 Fact When it comes to married couples over age 40, it’s more often the woman who asks for a divorce.

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