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]]> 93184 1 37 Tip Don’t make a rash decision; suggesting a break to your partner may cause hurt feelings, confusion, and anger.

]]> 93178 2 48 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/230301/48.jpg When you’ve decided, discuss it with your partner. Be honest about your feelings and clearly communicate why you want a break. Engage in a serious discussion about your relationship and where it’s going.

]]> 93180 3 70 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/230301/70.jpg Set some parameters. Decide ahead of time how long the break will last, and if “break” means no contact or limited contact. You should also address whether you’ll be allowed see other people.

]]> 93182 4 88 Tip Thirty days without face-to-face contact is usually a good starting point for a relationship break.

]]> 93183 5 94 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/230301/94.jpg Rediscover yourself. It’s easy to get caught up in a relationship and lose your sense of individuality, which can lead to stress and resentment of your partner. Use the time off to reflect on what you really want.

]]> 93179 6 109 Tip Be patient. A break can be an uncertain time, but don’t rush back into things just because you’re feeling needy.

]]> 93185 7 116 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/230301/116.jpg If you decide to get back together after the break, talk openly about the issues that drove you apart and how you can work to resolve them. Taking a break isn’t a quick fix, but it can lead to a sense of renewal and better communication.

]]> 93186 8 142 Fact Celebrity couple Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale took a break and ended up getting married.

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