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    <title>How To Make Friends With Your Neighbors</title>
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      <![CDATA[Having your neighbors as friends is a great way to ensure help moving furniture or finding a babysitter. ]]>
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        <![CDATA[Organizational skills]]>
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        <![CDATA[Enthusiasm]]>
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          <![CDATA[Host a housewarming party. Invite your neighbors, family, and friends for a friendly get-together.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Host a housewarming party. Invite your neighbors, family, and friends for a friendly get-together.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Ask guests to bring a dish. Potluck dinners make everyone feel more connected to the party.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Ask guests to bring a dish. Potluck dinners make everyone feel more connected to the party.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Initiate a neighborhood garage sale. Being an organizer provides an excuse to talk to neighbors.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Initiate a neighborhood garage sale. Being an organizer provides an excuse to talk to neighbors.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[In addition to being a great way to meet your neighbors, a neighborhood watch helps to create a safer environment for all of you.]]>
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          <![CDATA[Spark up a conversation. Ask about the schools, where to find the tastiest burger, or for a cup of sugar. Invite them over for coffee or a glass of wine.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Spark up a conversation. Ask about the schools, where to find the tastiest burger, or for a cup of sugar. Invite them over for coffee or a glass of wine.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>As of April 2009, the most visited social-networking site was MySpace, followed by Facebook.</p>]]>
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