How To Go To Confession

  • March 9, 2008
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Reconciliation, or penance, is one of Catholicism’s seven sacraments, and followers are expected to go to confession at least once a year. Rest assured that the priest, bound by the seal of confession, will not divulge your sins.

You Will Need

  • A conscience
  • A priest
  • A confessional or other private place
  • The desire to seek forgiveness
  • The will to be better
How To Go To Confession: Examine actions since last confession

Step 1: Examine actions since last confession

Examine your actions since your last confession. Reflect on those that have hurt other people or distanced you from God. Perhaps you’ve acted selfishly with a friend, or treated a family member unkindly. It goes without saying that you should already be reflecting on the heavy hitters, like adultery or theft.

How To Go To Confession: Find out confession schedule

Step 2: Find out confession schedule

Call your local church or consult the parish bulletin to find out when confessions are scheduled. If necessary, you can also arrange a different time with a priest.

How To Go To Confession: Enter the confessional

Step 3: Enter the confessional

Enter the confessional or the designated meeting place.

You do not have to be in a classic confessional to receive the sacrament of reconciliation.

How To Go To Confession: Greet the priest

Step 4: Greet the priest

Greet the priest.

How To Go To Confession: Tell priest last confession date

Step 5: Tell priest last confession date

Say, “Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. It’s been X days, months, or years since my last confession.”

How To Go To Confession: Tell priest of hurtful actions

Step 6: Tell priest of hurtful actions

Tell the priest about the hurtful actions you thought about earlier.

Rather than giving him a laundry list of sins, take the opportunity to have an open dialogue with your confessor.

How To Go To Confession: Receive penance from priest

Step 7: Receive penance from priest

Receive your penance from the priest, which is usually some form of prayer or reconciliation with another person.

How To Go To Confession: Say the Act of Contrition

Step 8: Say the Act of Contrition

Say the Act of Contrition.

How To Go To Confession: Receive priest's absolution

Step 9: Receive priest's absolution

Receive the priest’s absolution, which frees you of your sins.

How To Go To Confession: Do your penance

Step 10: Do your penance

Do your penance and resolve, as best you can, to avoid the same sins in the future.

How To Go To Confession: Celebrate your forgiveness

Step 11: Celebrate your forgiveness

Celebrate your forgiveness—just try not to commit any sins while doing so.

A priest cannot break the confessional seal under penalty of automatic excommunication—even to report a crime.

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Comments (11)

nilofc

Catholicism is true christianity. The only true family of God. All other religion is man-made.

over 3 years ago by nilofc

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Raoul_Duke

Actually, all religions are man made.If you can prove otherwise be my guest :-)

over 3 years ago by Raoul_Duke

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Chris_Davis

right on!

over 3 years ago by Chris_Davis

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fimwat

Ah, but why should such an a priori assumption be more credible than faith? Remember, faith is not blind - it resolves eventually to sight. What I mean is, if I told you that I had crumbed fish for dinner tonight, and you believe me, you now have a new piece of knowledge based on hearing (because I really did have crumbed fish last night). Whether or not it is true depends on the credibility of the witness. That aspect, for Christianity, can be historically examined and tested, since it is a religion of eye witnesses and public revelations (unlike, um... I can't think of any other, actually!). Since you ask for proof, I'll give you a challenge. Why not examine the historical evidence for Christ's resurrection, starting with the websites of Peter Kreeft (www.peterkreeft.com) and William Lane Craig (www.reasonablefaith.org)? This is a good, central topic, because one can say to all Christians with St. Paul, ";...if Christ be not raised, your faith is vain; ye are yet in your sins."; (I Corinthians 15:17). Go on, I dare you - take the challenge from this agnostic-turned-Catholic. ;-) Here's the link to the first article: www.peterkreeft.com/topics-more/resurrection-evidence.htm And God bless ye' - all, who seek, shall find. :-)

over 2 years ago by fimwat

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PhoenixGirl32

A Christian is anyone who professes beliefe in the teachings of Jesus Christ. The word 'catholic' means 'universal.' So, a Catholic is a person belonging to the universal christian church, or the whole body of christians. The Catholic Church has existed since the foundation of Christianity through Apostolic Succession and it is the largest single christian body, with more than one billion baptized members belonging to the universal christian church.

over 3 years ago by PhoenixGirl32

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randydollins

Common Act of Contrition: O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended you, and I detest all my sins, because I fear the loss of heaven, and the pains of hell; but most of all because they offend you, my God, who are all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of your grace, to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen.

over 3 years ago by randydollins

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asker101

I think that Catholicism is a mixture of idolatry and Christianity.

over 3 years ago by asker101

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Shannon_Swenson

Well shucks, you're misinformed and missing some good stuff! To help you, I suggest browsing http://catholic.com for answers to questions. Or walk up to any priest and give them the opportunity to clarify.

over 2 years ago by Shannon_Swenson

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buffilms

pretty vid...nice visuals

over 3 years ago by buffilms

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bheki

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about 7 hours ago by bheki

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the_sorcerer

I'm sorry, I meant to say: Why is CATHOLISISM a subdivision in Christianity. A Christian is not a Catholic, nor vice versa.

over 3 years ago by the_sorcerer

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the_sorcerer

May I ask why Christianity is a subdivision under Christianism? Christianity is not Catholisism and just because they ";claim"; to believe in God, it does not prove their being Christians. Got talk to an American (theyre everywhere, blonde, blue eyes, you know.) ask them what a real Christian is, they can tell you.

over 3 years ago by the_sorcerer

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