262698 523 Holidays & Celebrations General Holidays & Parties true Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:03:30 -0800 /system/videos/0/37/73/26/267337.flv celebrating,holidays,interfaith,jewish,catholic,christian,wife,husband,religious,traditions,honoring,balancing,christmas,hanukkah,both How To Celebrate the Holidays in an Interfaith Marriage http://www.howcast.com/videos/262698-How-To-Celebrate-the-Holidays-in-an-Interfaith-Marriage http://www.howcast.com/videos/262698-How-To-Celebrate-the-Holidays-in-an-Interfaith-Marriage/edit approved 107 640 360 <object width="425" height="273" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" id="howcastplayer"><param name="movie" value="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=262698"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.howcast.com/flash/howcast_player.swf?file=262698" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="273" allowFullScreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" ></embed></object> 0 bencheek http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/interfaith_marriage_hdstill01_xxlarge_maintained_aspect.jpg 178 false false false 99650 0 21 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/21.jpg Make a list Make a list of the holiday rituals that are important to you and ask your spouse to do the same. Then find a quiet, relaxed time to discuss how you can both preserve your traditions.

]]> 99651 1 31 Tip Look at the bright side: Each spouse gets to spend their holidays with their respective family, rather than alternating every year or running around trying to visit everyone.

]]> 99652 2 39 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/39.jpg Be open-minded If you find yourself balking at one of your spouse’s requests, think of it as helping a loved one celebrate any other big occasion in their life, like a birthday: The celebration is about them, not you. You are not betraying your own religion by respecting your spouse’s.

]]> 99653 3 53 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/53.jpg Be supportive If you agree to observe one of your spouse’s traditions, be gracious about it.

]]> 99654 4 59 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/59.jpg Compromise Consider compromising on the less significant parts of the holidays, like deciding to keep decorations religion-neutral.

]]> 99655 5 67 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/67.jpg Decide on gift-giving Agree on a gift-giving plan. Will you exchange gifts on both holidays? Should you alternate years regarding which holiday will involve gifts? If you have children, will they get presents for both occasions? What about your extended families?

]]> 99656 6 80 Tip If you’re giving children gifts for both holidays, spend the same amount of money for both occasions. Otherwise, you send the message that one holiday is more important than the other.

]]> 99657 7 89 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/89.jpg Create new traditions Create your own family traditions that combine the best of both your beliefs.

]]> 99658 8 94 Step http://img.howcast.com/system/thumbnails/262698/94.jpg Stay flexible Be willing to make adjustments as the years go by and circumstances change.

]]> 99659 9 100 Fact Nearly 50 percent of American Jews marry outside their faith.

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