How To Take a Compliment

  • November 4, 2009
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If you’re left speechless when someone gives you a compliment, follow these tips and feel better about yourself the next time it happens.

You Will Need

  • Self-confidence
  • Humility
  • Graciousness
How To Take a Compliment: Smile and say, "Thank you"

Step 1: Smile and say, "Thank you"

Smile and say, “Thank You” when someone offers you a compliment.

How To Take a Compliment: Avoid deflection

Step 2: Avoid deflection

Avoid deflecting the compliment or pointing out your weaknesses. This is a sign of low self-esteem.

Teach children to accept a compliment so that they will be more comfortable with receiving them later in life.

How To Take a Compliment: Own accomplishments

Step 3: Own accomplishments

Own your accomplishments and be proud of your hard work. Don’t try to pass them off as luck.

Avoid being cocky or arrogant when accepting a compliment – be confident but humble.

How To Take a Compliment: Return compliment

Step 4: Return compliment

Return a compliment with one directed at the person who complimented you.

How To Take a Compliment: Be gracious

Step 5: Be gracious

Don’t negate or dismiss the compliment – this may be viewed as selfish or insincere. Be gracious when accepting compliments. Treat compliments as you would a tangible gift or present.

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syrissco

thanks for guiding in a best way :) Tahir from Pakistan

2 months ago by syrissco

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