However much fun baby showers can be, there are certain protocols and traditional elements you won’t want to forget.
However much fun baby showers can be, there are certain protocols and traditional elements you won’t want to forget.

Pick a day well before the baby's due date, making certain that the expectant mother is available.
Etiquette dictates that a close friend of the mother-to-be hosts the party.
Check to see that the mother has registered somewhere so you can include the baby registry information on the invitation.
Assemble a guest list and get addresses. Send invitations at least two weeks beforehand and ask for an RSVP.
Plan a menu, including a cake. Ask others to help pay, or bake no-fuss foods yourself. Keep it simple and figure the amount of food according to the time of day the shower will be held.
Brainstorm for party themes that reflect the mother-to-be’s personality, humor, or tastes. Brainstorm with helpers to tie food, gifts, and games together.
Get decorations from a party supply or baby store, using a color theme consistent with the baby’s sex, if that’s known.
Choose baby shower games, such as "Guess the baby food" or "Jeopardy Nursery Rhymes." Scan web sites for ideas, games, and resources for baby showers.
Baby showers can often be co-ed, including the father-to-be and his male friends.
Send the invitations, being sure to include the date, time, and location.
Did you know? Baby showers became common after World War II, during the baby boom of the 1940s and 1950s.