How To Win an Argument

  • December 22, 2009
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You can win an argument fair and square if you have a few facts and these techniques.

You Will Need

  • The focus of an attack dog
  • A good memory
  • Humility
  • The will to exaggerate
How To Win an Argument: Don't back off

Step 1: Don't back off

Don’t back down. Calmly document your points with objective facts.

How To Win an Argument: Disarm opponent

Step 2: Disarm opponent

Disarm your opponent by asking clarifying questions and using their answers against them.

How To Win an Argument: Cross-examine

Step 3: Cross-examine

Cross-examine the other person and let them tie themselves up in their own logic. Once you threaten their ego, you have them on the ropes.

How To Win an Argument: Keep track of failed points

Step 4: Keep track of failed points

Keep track of your opponent’s failure to rebut certain points and state these at the end as proof of their agreement with your position.

Make mental notes during the argument of points your opponent can’t refute.

How To Win an Argument: Show humility

Step 5: Show humility

Admit your own mistakes and keep an open mind if you want to be taken seriously. Let them save face so you find commonalities that make them think your point was their idea.

It’s best not to try to bring up something you cannot prove, or it could undermine all your other points.

How To Win an Argument: Use one weak position to discredit all positions

Step 6: Use one weak position to discredit all positions

Refute their weakest point, and declare this as proof that all their opinions on this topic are faulty.

Did you know? Aristotle’s logical works are the earliest formal study of logic.

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LukeN

Ah, the good ol' days.

about 1 year ago by LukeN

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