How To Talk To Girls
- June 6, 2011
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Chris Loud
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If you’re like a lot of guys, you might stumble a bit when talking to girls. But you don’t have to.
You Will Need
- A girl to talk to
- Listening skills
- Confidence
Step 1: Listen to her
Actively listen when you’re talking to a girl and focus on what’s important to her.
Step 2: Ask questions
Ask questions that show you’re interested. Ask her to expand on something she told you about herself.
Maintain eye contact when you’re talking to show you’re interested in her.
Step 3: Ask open-ended questions
Ask open-ended questions that might have simple answers, but might also allow you to strike up a conversation.
Avoid questions that have “yes” or “no” answers. You don’t want to play 20 questions.
Step 4: Be confident
Act confidently, but don’t be cocky. Body language says a lot about confidence, so stand up straight and practice good posture.
Step 5: Talk clearly with strength
Speak clearly and with authority. This doesn’t mean you should talk like a police officer, but make sure she hears you and can tell you believe what you’re saying. Be direct and to the point.
Showing passion about things you care about is good, but don’t overdo it.
Step 6: Keep the conversation light
Keep the conversation light while you’re getting to know her. Avoid controversial topics, like religion and politics, and sad or profound topics, like death. Start on a lighter note. You want her to remember you fondly, not as a potential threat.
Step 7: Be yourself
Be yourself. That’s who you want her to like.
Did You Know? A study found that of 114 Americans who had been romantically rejected in the eight weeks prior to the study, 40 percent were clinically depressed.
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Hey ;
Thanks for the info , I going to post what happened with me 2 weeks ago when I tried to talk to a Girl , the Girl I wanted to talk to is for the 1st time I see her in the bus while I am going to the university and when coming back as well , at the beginning we looked into each other for like 2-3 times , I liked her eyes and her character , after 6-7 encounters with each other , I decided to talk to her , she was in the library of our university and at the beginning I was afraid to talk to her , but I had some good strength to go and talk to her , I started by saying hi , she replied ";hi"; , then I said "; it seems that you have an exam soon , she replied ";yes"; and then I said good luck for you and I wish you do good in your exams , she replied ";thanks"; , then I asked her , Can I have 5 mins of your time please if you dont mind ? , she asked ";why"; , I said I need to talk to you outside the library since we shouldnt talk inside , she hesitated for a moment , and then asked me , Does it going to benefit me ? I replied ";it might"; , then she looked back at her book , and told me "; hmm , I am not intrested"