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Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- A declaration of love
- A declaration of commitment
- A secluded spot
- Self deprecation
- A physically strenuous or anxiety-producing activity
- Eye contact
Tell her you love her
Tell her you love her. Researchers found this to be the most effective way to get a woman into bed. We'll leave the ethics to you.
Say you're committed to her
Can't bring yourself to say those three little words? Imply that you're committed to her, which runs a close second to, "I love you."
Tell her you care for her
Still stammering? Tell her you care about her very deeply. It's only slightly less effective than those first two lines.
Go somewhere private
Now that she's interested, take her to a secluded place. Privacy helps put women in the mood.
Be self-deprecating. One anthropologist found that many women are sexually attracted to men who appear modest in a funny, charming way.
Plan a physically taxing activity for the two of you. Getting a woman's heart rate up primes her for sexual arousal. Or, do something slightly scary; anxiety works, too.
Make eye contact
Trying to seduce a stranger? Make eye contact and hold it. And we do mean eye contact: Women are turned on by a guy who looks deeply into their eyes, and turned off by one who looks their body up and down before stopping at their breasts.
Make it about her
No matter who you're trying to seduce, or how long you've known her, remember this golden rule: It's all about her. If you can get her to talk about herself, and convince her that you are hanging on her every word, you're halfway home.