How To Be a Gentleman
- April 26, 2011
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- Mom Diane Dungey
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Distinguish yourself as a class act by remembering what your mother taught you.
You Will Need
- Manners
- Grooming
- Taste
- Listening skills
Step 1: Say please and thank you
Mind your manners. Say please and thank you everywhere, in every situation. Seek to make every social experience a positive one.
Step 2: Be well groomed
Be well groomed and polished as a matter of respect for yourself and for those you encounter.
Step 3: Help out
Go out of your way to help others — hold doors, offer directions, share your time, money, and advice without expecting anyone to reciprocate.
Remember — what you learned in kindergarten about sharing and mutual respect will go a long way.
Step 4: Make tasteful observations
Make tasteful observations and jokes. Avoid jokes told at the expense of other people.
Step 5: Listen well
Listen well, making eye contact. Wait to speak and steer clear of arguments.
Step 6: Admit mistakes
Admit mistakes and accept criticism graciously. People appreciate being around someone who is self-aware and personally responsible.
Step 7: Don’t stare
Don’t shame, embarrass, or taunt others. Never stare at someone.
In 1717, Stede Bonnet, a retired British army major with a large sugar plantation in Barbados, abandoned his wife, children, land and fortune; bought a ship; and embarked on a career as a pirate, earning him the nickname, “The Gentleman Pirate.”
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Comments (2)
Wonderful post! I think this should be mandatory training for boys and men.
over 2 years ago by sienta
i think you're a communist sienta
over 2 years ago by Virgilblack89
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