How To Remember People’s Names

  • April 7, 2008
  • 39,482 Views
Please install Flash

The only thing worse than forgetting someone’s name is calling them by the wrong one. Learn how to lock people’s names into your brain with these tricks.

You Will Need

  • Deep breathing
  • Eye contact
  • Visualization
  • Imagination
How To Remember People’s Names: Take a deep breath

Step 1: Take a deep breath

Take a few deep breaths before you’re introduced to someone. When you’re stressed out, the brain activates an enzyme that impairs short-term memory, reducing the chances that you’ll remember what you hear.

How To Remember People’s Names: Lock eyes

Step 2: Lock eyes

Look the person in the eye as they say their name. Research shows that making eye contact with the speaker doubles your retention.

If you’re at a party, wait until all the introductions are made before you hit the buffet; a Yale study found that memory is best on an empty stomach.

How To Remember People’s Names: Say it out loud

Step 3: Say it out loud

Say the person’s name out loud when you first learn it, as in, “Nice to meet you, John.” Repeating the name activates the auditory part of the brain, and the more senses you use the better chance you have of retaining information.

How To Remember People’s Names: Psyche yourself

Step 4: Psyche yourself

When you are told a name, say to yourself, “I will remember that his name is John.” Our brains have a filter that purges information they consider unimportant. By giving the name extra significance, your brain will be more likely to retain it.

Exercising your brain with games like Scrabble, crossword puzzles, and Sudoku improves memory by strengthening neural pathways and creating new ones.

How To Remember People’s Names: Picture it

Step 5: Picture it

Take a tip from President Teddy Roosevelt, who was renowned for his name recall. His secret? Picturing the person’s name written across their forehead when he was first told it.

How To Remember People’s Names: Try word association

Step 6: Try word association

Think up a word association that will help you recall the name. Remember “Mrs. Lyon” by picturing her with a mane and a tail. Envision a guy named Arnold as the Terminator—especially if he’s scrawny. The sillier the association, the better it’ll stick.

The average person forgets half of what he’s heard within 30 minutes.

Something wrong?

Report This How-To

Cancel

Comments (18)

KatieL

what is your name again?

over 3 years ago by KatieL

Reply
norgon

MY NAME IS DAN.

over 3 years ago by norgon

Reply
abbirosekelly

Loved it! Funny and informative...actors were great!

over 3 years ago by abbirosekelly

Reply
fedmich

I second that :) Thanks, this is useful

over 3 years ago by fedmich

Reply
deckard1

My Name is STEELY; DAN and I have a date with you tonight KatieL, remember?

over 3 years ago by deckard1

Reply
shanenetwork

Great video, entertaining and memorable, now if I can only remember this past 30 min. later, ummm.

over 2 years ago by shanenetwork

Reply
Mary_Priebe_Koivu

I am with you on that one

about 1 year ago by Mary_Priebe_Koivu

Reply
NBL18

Omg, this is the PERFECT video for teachers!

over 2 years ago by NBL18

Reply
jackierange

this is fabulous!

over 3 years ago by jackierange

Reply
pedritogaby

I just imagined myself doing exactly this in front of a party of people I just meet, remembering there names like she is doing, it would be so hilarious

over 2 years ago by pedritogaby

Reply
Jordi_Agusti_Fonoll

muy bueno

over 2 years ago by Jordi_Agusti_Fonoll

Reply
Twillian

Remembering people's names has been a long-time weakness for me. The video is a big help C :

over 2 years ago by Twillian

Reply
dollarstretcher

http://motorcycle-helmet-lock.blogspot.com/2008/12/motorcycle-throttle-lock.html

over 2 years ago by dollarstretcher

Reply
mobile

Thanks for an excellent bideo http://www.vkamobi.com

over 2 years ago by mobile

Reply
CCMovies

Ha ha ha, that was really good! Thanks and great job!

over 2 years ago by CCMovies

Reply
mobile

I second that :) Thanks, this is useful,, http://www.udtek.com

about 1 year ago by mobile

Reply
dblhelix

so what's the point of watching this video?

about 1 year ago by dblhelix

Reply
mobile

Air Jordan 11 http://www.bigtimekicks.com/men/rare-jordans/air-jordan-11.html

about 1 year ago by mobile

Reply

or to post a comment. Or, sign in using your Facebook to comment
and share your activity with your friends

Video is in Howcast Turns One! (14 videos)