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Spice up your love life -- and learn how to handle any sexual situation that may arise -- with the advice in these Howcast videos.
You Will Need
- Crude language
- Sexual fantasies
- Porn movies (optional)
Replace vague murmurings like, "that feels so good" with explicit expressions of what is going on, what's going to happen, or what you hope will happen.
Use crude language
Use raunchy language to describe body parts and sexual acts, as in, "I love the way you're bleeping my bleep."
Whisper a fantasy
Whisper a sexual fantasy in their ear, and make it graphic.
Follow their lead
Follow their lead: If your partner is describing what they'd like to do or have done to them, they'd probably enjoy hearing something along those lines from you.
Don't force it
Don't force it. The unsexiest thing you can do is say something that is clearly making you uncomfortable.