How to Talk Dirty
Turn your lover on with words alone using these sex-speak techniques.
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You Will Need
- Crude language
- Compliments
- Sexual fantasies
- Porn movies (optional)
Steps
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Step 1
Be specific
Replace vague murmurings like, "that feels so good" with explicit expressions of what is going on, what's going to happen, or what you hope will happen.
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Step 2
Use crude language
Use raunchy language to describe body parts and sexual acts, as in, "I love the way you're bleeping my bleep."
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Men should avoid words that might be deemed offensive unless they know their partner is turned on by that kind of talk.
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Step 3
Whisper a fantasy
Whisper a sexual fantasy in their ear, and make it graphic.
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Pick up lewd lines and sexy scenarios by watching some porn.
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Step 4
Follow their lead
Follow their lead: If your partner is describing what they'd like to do or have done to them, they'd probably enjoy hearing something along those lines from you.
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Step 5
Don't force it
Don't force it. The unsexiest thing you can do is say something that is clearly making you uncomfortable.
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More than half of people polled said dirty talk turns them on.
