How to Talk Dirty

Turn your lover on with words alone using these sex-speak techniques.

You will need

  • Crude language
  • Compliments
  • Sexual fantasies
  • Porn movies (optional)

Step 1 Be specific Replace vague murmurings like, “that feels so good” with explicit expressions of what is going on, what’s going to happen, or what you hope will happen.

Step 2 Use crude language Use raunchy language to describe body parts and sexual acts, as in, “I love the way you’re bleeping my bleep.”

Step 3 Whisper a fantasy Whisper a sexual fantasy in their ear, and make it graphic.

Step 4 Follow their lead Follow their lead: If your partner is describing what they’d like to do or have done to them, they’d probably enjoy hearing something along those lines from you.

Step 5 Don't force it Don’t force it. The unsexiest thing you can do is say something that is clearly making you uncomfortable.