I am so depressed, I will never be happy with who I am.

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Thankyou very much for those words microdac!! I will reflect and meditate upon them.....Lynn

Any time Lynn. I am not afraid to admit that I do enjoy people. If I had a motto it would be Live, Love and Laugh. Life is beautiful and should be enjoyed daily! I feel honored to have met you.

Thankyou very much for this message! I needed this. I feel like KatieL though. After I turn off this PC I'll probably go back to feeling depressed. So I'll try what you suggested to her and give you 5 things I love about myself and see if you can prove your point to me, OK. 1. I love my hair (I have dreadkocks) 2. I love my self ( but really, who am I ?) do i really love myself if iam depressed? 3. I love to be pretty. (iam older now 52yrs and dont feel pretty any more, especially when i look at my face in the mirror and see my face has aged) 4. i love my sense of adventure (even though I dont go anywhere. dont want folks to see this ugly face) And 5. I love that i am creative ( I guess) So now what microdac............................................. Can you help or enlighten me? Lynn

This helped me a little ^_^

I don't know who you are, but this much I am certain,. YOU are very unique and very special IF and when you stop comparing yourself with others. Most people simply live their lives as pretend; being very afraid of being different. Do me a favor and tell me 5 things that you really love about yourself, and I'll prove my point. OK?

Lynn. First of all, I do love your dreadlocks! have you seen my videos shot in Jamaica. The rastafarians that I met were all REAL and absolutely beautiful people. Unfortunately, there are many with dreadlocks that haven't a clue about being real. Being real, I think, is erasing other people's concepts and inputs and believing in yourself. Dreadlocks, for you, should be a statement that your are who you are. Say "I am" and mean it. Anything that you say after 'I am...' is defining yourself. Be careful what you decree for yourself. I am glad that you love yourself; you should show that affection physically, mentally and spiritual each and every day. bring every day to a climatic conclusion. You are pretty!!! What others think has no true value (Unless you give their perceptions life). If you don't like what you see in the mirror, maybe it is not your face, it is the mirror. Don't you know that being in your 50's is the greatest time in your life? Think about it an be honest... don't you just love the freedom of maturity? Forgetting about the false inputs of others, if being in 50's is this good... just think what it is going to be like in your 60's... I am in my 60's and everything is better... If I knew you better, I would give you details.... :)