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      <![CDATA[You've met the perfect guy. You know he's the one. Now here's a surefire way to let your text-happy enthusiasm get the best of you both.]]>
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        <![CDATA[A cell phone]]>
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        <![CDATA[A tendency to take things a little too far]]>
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          <![CDATA[It's the day after your awesome date, and he just sent you a text. Immediately forward it to every member of your inner circle, and urgently demand their feedback. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s the day after your awesome date, and he just sent you a text. Immediately forward it to every member of your inner circle, and urgently demand their feedback.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Take at least five hours to agonize over your response. Every five minutes, solicit the same friends for advice.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Take at least five hours to agonize over your response. Every five minutes, solicit the same friends for advice.</p>]]>
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        <title>Kick your text speak up a notch</title>
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          <![CDATA[Kick your text-speak up a notch. Use your standard OMG's and LOL's, but add a twist and keep him on his toes with lots of long, confusing abbreviations.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Kick your text-speak up a notch. Use your standard OMG&#8217;s and LOL&#8217;s, but add a twist and keep him on his toes with lots of long, confusing abbreviations.</p>]]>
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        <title>Use sarcasm</title>
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          <![CDATA[Show off your sense of humor by using sarcasm. Some say it doesn't translate well into text form, but they're not the ones with a dude wrapped around their little finger, are they?]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Show off your sense of humor by using sarcasm. Some say it doesn&#8217;t translate well into text form, but they&#8217;re not the ones with a dude wrapped around their little finger, are they?</p>]]>
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        <title>Bare your soul</title>
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          <![CDATA[Bare your soul. Text him all of your uncensored thoughts, problems, and opinions in detail, and don't worry about a character limit. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Bare your soul. Text him all of your uncensored thoughts, problems, and opinions in detail, and don&#8217;t worry about a character limit.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[It may be early in the relationship, but it's high time for you to know where you stand.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>It may be early in the relationship, but it&#8217;s high time for you to know where you stand.</p>]]>
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        <title>Point out character flaws</title>
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          <![CDATA[You're ready for the next step of intimacy: pointing out his character flaws. If you don't help him change, who will? ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re ready for the next step of intimacy: pointing out his character flaws. If you don&#8217;t help him change, who will?</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Every day, send several brief texts about his personal failings. Sandwich them in between compliments.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Every day, send several brief texts about his personal failings. Sandwich them in between compliments.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[He may be the love of your life, but he hasn't texted you back in four hours. Let's face it -- he's probably messing around with that girl down the hall. Let him know you won't stand for this kind of treatment and you'll have the upper hand in no time.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>He may be the love of your life, but he hasn&#8217;t texted you back in four hours. Let&#8217;s face it &#8212; he&#8217;s probably messing around with that girl down the hall. Let him know you won&#8217;t stand for this kind of treatment and you&#8217;ll have the upper hand in no time.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Guys love it when you send them lengthy videos of your pets. Bonus points if they're dressed up in costumes.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Guys love it when you send them lengthy videos of your pets. Bonus points if they&#8217;re dressed up in costumes.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Yes, stuffed animals qualify as pets.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Things can start to get a little dull after the three-date mark. Keep the magic alive by showering him with affection in the form of constant texts. ]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Things can start to get a little dull after the three-date mark. Keep the magic alive by showering him with affection in the form of constant texts.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Show him how much you care by making yourself available. Prove that you're up for anything, anytime, anywhere, even if you're not specifically invited.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Show him how much you care by making yourself available. Prove that you&#8217;re up for anything, anytime, anywhere, even if you&#8217;re not specifically invited.</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA[Good work! You’ve successfully sabotaged _this_ fledgling relationship – who’s next?]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Good work! You’ve successfully sabotaged <em>this</em> fledgling relationship – who’s next?</p>]]>
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          <![CDATA["Flirxting" is flirting through texting.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Flirxting&#8221; is flirting through texting.</p>]]>
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