How to Pick Up a Girl at the Beach

With the warmth of the sun, fresh air, and sound of the water hitting the shore, the beach is the perfect setting for picking up a girl.

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Let Howcast be your dating coach with this video series on how to ask out someone.

You Will Need

  • Patience
  • Confidence
  • An open-ended question
  • Listening skills

Steps

  1. Step 1

    Wait for an opening

    Wait for the perfect time to approach your prey. Do not approach her when she is engaged in a conversation, on the phone, or playing volleyball.

  2. Step 2

    Seize the day

    Seize the day – go for it. Be confident. Walk with your head up, shoulders slightly back, and wear a big welcoming smile.

  3. Step 3

    Start a conversation

    Ask her if she will talk to you privately if she is with a big group of friends. Ask her an open-ended question to start a conversation.

  4. Do not let your eyes wander. Look her in the eyes when engaging in a conversation.

  5. Step 4

    Listen

    Listen to what she is saying. Be sincere in your responses

  6. Step 5

    Express your interest in her

    Express your interest in her and ask her if she would like to go out you sometime. Do not specify a date.

  7. Step 6

    Get to know her

    Get to know her by inviting her to the movies or dinner if she accepts your invitation. If she turns you down, look around – there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

  8. In 2008, 1,210 U.S. beaches were affected by advisories or closures by the E.P.A. because of potential risk to public health.

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