How to Flirt with a Girl

Asking a girl out can be an intimidating experience. Try flirting to break the ice and see if you get a positive reaction.


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You Will Need

  • Confidence
  • Eye contact
  • A smile
  • Open-ended questions
  • And a sense of humor


  1. Step 1

    Be confident

    Be confident. Confidence is a trait women find attractive.

  2. Step 2

    Make eye contact

    Make eye contact with her and greet her with a smile.

  3. Step 3

    Approach her

    Approach her and ask her an open-ended question that begins with "how" or "why" to encourage a conversation.

  4. Give her all of your attention when she is speaking.

  5. Step 4

    Make her laugh

    Make her laugh by telling a joke or making a witty comment.

  6. Step 5

    Give a compliment

    Give her genuine compliments throughout your conversations.

  7. Step 6

    Touch her

    Gently touch her on her arm or shoulder when talking. Pay close attention to how she reacts and respond appropriately.

  8. Step 7

    Ask her out

    Ask her out if she positively responds to your flirtatious moves.

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