How to Get Over a Guy
Getting over a guy can be an emotional roller coaster. Learn to love again with time and a positive attitude.
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You Will Need
- Acceptance
- Time
- Hobbies and activities
- Support group
- Massage (optional)
- New 'do (optional)
- Professional help (optional)
Steps
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Step 1
Let out your emotions
Let out your emotions. Cry, scream, yell, and cry again.
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Step 2
Take time to heal
Take time to heal after a breakup. Accept that it is over and focus on your needs.
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Pamper yourself with some time off from work. Get a massage or a new hairdo.
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Step 3
Keep busy
Keep yourself busy. Take up a new hobby, watch a funny movie, read a book, or join a new activity.
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Step 4
Get support
Hang out with a supportive group of people such as friends, neighbors, and family members who can lend an ear and help cheer you up.
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Step 5
Clean up
Get rid of anything that reminds you of him and decorate your home with pictures of great moments with friends and family.
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Seek professional help if you are having difficulties moving on.
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Step 6
Start dating again
Get out and start dating again when you are ready. Attend functions or events for singles. Have fun and meet new people.
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