How To Stand Up To a Bully
- September 25, 2008
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Writer
WriteOn_Mommy
Music (track 1)
Colin O'Dwyer
Music (track 2)
Edison Music Corp
Music (track 3)
Jonathan Roberts
Voice Over Artist
Darcie Champagne
It’s scary, but you can learn how to stand up to a bully – and come out on top.
You Will Need
- Courage
- Wit
- Self-control
- An adult you can confide in (optional)
Step 1: Be assertive
Phrases like “cut it out,” “back off,” or a firm “stop!” can catch the bully off guard. Remember, bullies tend to pick on those who don’t stand up for themselves.
Step 2: Have a funny comeback
Respond to a bully’s taunts with a funny comeback. For example, if someone makes fun of your clothes, say, “I didn’t ask for your opinion, but thanks for caring,” or “I don’t dress to impress you, so don’t worry about it.”
When using humor to respond to a bully’s taunts, keep it light – being mean or using curse words will only make matters worse.
Step 3: Don’t get violent
Don’t get physical, even if the bully deserves to be hit. Violence will only make things worse — and may even get you in trouble.
The perfect time to stand up to a bully is when there are people around who can take your side.
Step 4: Tell an adult
If the bullying gets to be more than you can handle, speak to an adult about it—try a parent, teacher, or security guard. You have the right to feel safe.
Nova Scotia, in Canada, has proclaimed the second Thursday of every new school year “Stand Up Against Bullying Day.”
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Comments (5)
Those facial expressions are classic!
over 3 years ago by rebelist
this is really good info.
over 3 years ago by Malorie_Lucich
What a riot! That's the coolest bully I've ever seen. He should get into theater or something :)
over 3 years ago by dynamicmentalfitness
I've been a bully and been bullied, these sugestions are utterly ridiculous. Not only will you get beat up, but you might get seriously hurt.
1) stop it = whiny, back off and stop = hall monitor syndrome = funny to a bully and audience
2) none of those were funny, and trying to steal heat from a bully will piss him off even more. Bullies want attention taking it away will get you hurt.
3) Kick in the balls, and a fast foot are an easy one time solution, long term find someone who cares and can really help you.
Tip) a lot of people are really weak or dont care when it comes to bullying in school, not the person being bullied but the actual audience. If you can get anyones help it will most likely be a caring woman or adult
over 3 years ago by salvo623
thrue blue bro, or simply get a ree barr and a bellaclava , wait for them in an isolated place and make shore they wont be a ble to speack for the next month
about 1 year ago by Mario_Schietroma
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