How to Discuss Starting a Family with Your Partner
Starting a family is an important decision. Make sure your feelings are mutual by opening the lines of communication.
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You Will Need
- Pen and paper
- Honest discussion
- Doctor
Steps
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Step 1
Write down concerns
Write down your thoughts about starting a family to get them organized before opening a dialogue.
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Step 2
Talk
Designate a time and place to have an uninterrupted conversation with your partner.
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Step 3
Express your feelings
Talk about how each of you feels about having children. Be honest about your concerns or fears.
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Step 4
Look at goals
Figure out what conditions need to exist before starting a family. Some priorities could include finishing school or starting a career.
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Until you are ready to conceive, talk about what methods of contraception you will use.
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Step 5
Discuss history
Discuss any religious or cultural differences you may have.
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Step 6
Look at finances
Examine your finances. Discuss the steps you need to take to ensure a workable budget.
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Step 7
Talk with your doctor
Make an appointment with your doctor to discuss each other's lifestyle choices and family and medical histories. Talk about how to plan a healthy pregnancy.
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In 2008, there were approximately 5.3 million stay-at-home moms, and approximately 140,000 stay-at-home dads.
